Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I'm glad she kicked him out. Maybe he'll start being a fucking man now Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post I Heart MB Posted at 11:54 am on July 9, 2008 This asshole my sister's been dating for 9 months got her pregnant two months ago and my mother is taking it pretty well, she even calls him her "son" (in a jokingly manner, but he doesn't get that - this fucker thinks he really IS my mom's son, lol). My mom can be so stupid at times, it's not even funny. His mother kicked him out. And I applaud her for it! She basically said she isn't dealing with this because he's 18, he decided he wanted to have sex without a condom, and now it's his problem - not hers. I'm glad. I'd do the exact same thing. Would you kick your son out if he got a girl pregnant and was irresponsible about the whole situation (not looking for a job, a high school drop out, etc.)??

Replies punkypanda Posted at 1:14 am on July 11, 2008 i wouldnt kick him out cuz it was (although surprising) supporting that my rents didnt kick me out when i got pregnant neverjeeps Posted at 9:10 pm on July 10, 2008 wtF? 866 votes? dunebug Posted at 5:40 pm on July 10, 2008 It depends. If she's only 8 weeks gone, that means that she's only known for like 4-5 weeks since you can't find out until you're 4-5 weeks along. I think that's a little premature to kick him out for not "stepping up" yet. What exactly is he supposed to be doing while the fetus is the size of a grain of rice? He could be out looking for a job but a lot of times it takes more than a month to land one. Just because he's not busting his ass 30 days after hearing the news doesn't mean he's a deadbeat dad, although he's a lot more likely to be one now since he's homeless and support-less. woodbridgeguy1 Posted at 6:46 am on July 10, 2008 I wouldn't kick him out because it would be at that very time that he would need help the most. You can't just disown a child because they made a mistake. I would deal with the situation and help my child as much as I could. Glow Worm Posted at 5:34 am on July 10, 2008 If my daughter got pregnant and decided the keep the baby, then I would make it very clear that she would not be living in my house. Having a child means being an adult, and adults live on their own and pay their own bills. I will have already raised my children by then, and I'm not looking for another. Now, that's with my daughter. If my son got a girl pregnant, I would expect him to be doing some serious thinking. If he's offered to help pay for an abortion and she refuses and insists on keeping the child, and if he makes it very clear that he does not want to take any part in the pregnancy or the baby, then I wouldn't do anything about his living situations. As far as I'm concerned, he's played his part. However, if he wanted to help with the baby and be a father, then I would tell him that he needed to get a job and start supporting. Would I kick him out? No, probably not. He's going to have to find his own way, and if the baby came and he still wasn't doing his part (after clearly stating that he would), I would encourage the mother of his child to sue for appropriate child support. And, as in the case of my daughter, I would not have the baby or the mother moving into my house. swtpie Posted at 4:23 am on July 10, 2008 I wouldn't raise my son like that. Plus, your sister should of thought about protection too. RainBowBow Posted at 1:55 pm on July 9, 2008 Hell ya I Heart MB Posted at 12:11 pm on July 9, 2008 Omg, on another note (although I hear what you all are saying), look at the votes!! Best glitch ever, lol. PineappleKiss Posted at 12:09 pm on July 9, 2008 I'd not kick him out. I'd be there for him. The last thing you'd want if you got someone pregnant and you were anxious anyways, would be your family turn against you and kick you out. Votes. :O AndWhenHeFalleth Posted at 12:08 pm on July 9, 2008 Mistakes happen.  I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I abandoned my own child over a momentary lapse in judgment that could have happened to anyone.  I wouldn't be thrilled with him, and I wouldn't be willing to handle everything for him, but I'd be there for him and help him find resources to get his life back on track.  It's part of being a parent, and in that situation, its also part of being a grand parent. Spiral Posted at 12:08 pm on July 9, 2008 How the hell did this get so many votes in 13 minutes? RosieDudes Posted at 12:08 pm on July 9, 2008 go n the steve wilkos show and get the problem fixed! :) steve wilkos rules JuggaletteBaby Posted at 12:07 pm on July 9, 2008 yes i would. i wish my parents would kick my brother out. he's 17 and got a 15 yr old girl prego and he wouldn't take care of the baby until one day he got arrested and the judge told him that he has to prove that he got a job and he's supporting the baby, so then the asshole gave her $15 and thinks that it's good enough. i'm sorry about your sister. Slim Shady Posted at 12:06 pm on July 9, 2008 I would kick him out - he needs to learn how to take responsibility for his actions. kimmy loves you Posted at 12:05 pm on July 9, 2008 what the hell is up with the votes on this?!?! there's never that many and they're usually mostly from girls. Most recent 15 of 24 previous replies displayed.