Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My boyfriend asked me if I loved him, and I said no. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 12:39 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 My boyfriend went to this party last night and he got drunk, and the whole night he kept texting me that he loved me and he was sorry he was drunk. It was making me reallllllllly uncomfortable so I ignored the I love you part and told him I didn't care if he got drunk or not. I guess he didn't want that part to be ignored, so he texted me and asked me if I loved him. I told him no. I FEEL SO AWFUL.     And he tried to call me this morning but I ignored him and he texted me that we needed to talk about the fact that he loved me and I didn't love him back... I do not know what to do AT ALL.

Replies lucky015 Posted at 11:08 am on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from bhabytaranee 13 at 9:40 am on Jan. 2, 2009 So you want to be with him, but you don't love him. that sounds kinda mean, and wrong. Why the hell date him, if your not in love with him. My thought exactly... nik1 Posted at 4:14 am on Jan. 3, 2009 Obviously you don't use the word LOVE as frivolous as he does.  I think you handled it just right.  If you love him I think you have a perfect answer when you see him and the subject comes up.  Tell him that you didn't love what he was saying and the condition he was in when he was saying it.  Tell him it was like talking to Jack Daniels or Budweiser, not him. anna rachelle Posted at 1:46 am on Jan. 3, 2009 It's good that you were honest. Honesty is the best policy. Even if it breaks someone's heart. and there is nothing to talk abouttt; you dont love him. end of story. RainBowBow Posted at 12:16 am on Jan. 3, 2009 he should start acting like a man, if he broke up with you just because of what you said. I think you should find a better man. MrRight Posted at 11:41 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Is everyone who replied here except Major a bunch of retards or illiterate? The girl just said she has been dating the guy for 2 weeks, thats not love folks that's lust. She already explain why she didn't say it back and your still insisting that she should call him and apologize for not saying it back. Op there's more to a relationship then being able to talk about anything, good friends can do that to. You say there is really no flirting going on, are you attracted to this guy? Do you show affection towards each other?   ocho cinco Posted at 11:34 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 Lol, you definitely didn't consider feelings when you said that. You're supposed to say you don't know yet or something. Not just blatantly no, that sounds like you dont even like him. ges655 Posted at 11:31 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 when you talk to him tell him the truth... that you actually love him? or do you? your explanation confuses me handsfree Posted at 11:28 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 I think you did and are doing the right thing. GrapePepper Posted at 12:16 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 chelsea i am soOooooooOOOOOooo glad you said no :) prettisweet626 Posted at 1:23 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 Quote: from GoodFairy13 at 12:42 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 You were honest. Just call him and say your not in love with him yet.   You may fall in love at some point.   Its not a big deal really.   Just talk to him.   EXACTLY! major Posted at 1:09 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 Quote: from rebelmozzerella at 12:57 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 Then what IS grounds for a relationship? he makes  you feel like you can never get enough air and when your arms are very close together the space in between feels like it's electrified The Persuader Posted at 1:00 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 U didn't mean it right? Or did u? Just tell him that ur sorry and u said that becuz u were irritated. I didn't read the whole thing but...i understand. Anonymous Posted at 12:57 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 Then what IS grounds for a relationship? mbs55 Posted at 12:57 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 Quote: from rebelmozzerella at 12:55 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 Quote: from Major at 2:54 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 then why are you with him? He's one of my closest friends. I can talk to him about anything and I like being with him. Well to me it seems like you're pretty close to ruining the friendship you have with him. major Posted at 12:55 pm on Jan. 1, 2009 that's not grounds for a relationship. it sounds like you're leading him on. Most recent 15 of 37 previous replies displayed.