Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Is it a turn on/turn off for a guy..? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post boombabyboom Posted at 1:52 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Do guys like it when you're straight forward about crushing on them? Because I like this guy, we've chilled a few times and text non stop. I think it's pretty obvious when I flirt with him and he might have caught on. For new years I was drunk and texted him telling him I liked him, but he was drunk too so he either forgot about it, or just disregarded it and doesn't care. Do guys generally like when girls are forward about their feelings? Or is it a turn off, one of those old fashioned 'guy makes the first move' thing?

Replies RedNoir Posted at 2:03 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Most men like to make the first move. They like the trill of the chase. Smargon Posted at 2:02 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 My boyfriend said he finds things like that attractive.. so.. go for it. Just tell him. LudovicoTechnique Posted at 1:58 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from jsgirl at 1:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from TheFortunate at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 It changes from guy to guy. Personally, I don't like it, but it's not really a turn-off. I'm in love with you. I don't like the fact that you're so straightforward about it, but it's ok, because I'm not entirely turned off. xdreamingx3 Posted at 1:58 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 just tell him. from my experiences guys seem to like that. rancid freakin rawk Posted at 1:57 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Too a certain extent, yeah. Just enough so that it's known, not goin overboard with it though hivemind Posted at 1:57 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 tell him, but only if you think he might like you back. boombabyboom Posted at 1:56 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from fedoragirl at 4:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I think you should be clear with him and say it again just in case he did forget! I don't want to push it, though. I only like him I don't want him to think I'm one of thoe girls that falls in love with every guy she meets o.0 jsgirl Posted at 1:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Quote: from TheFortunate at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 It changes from guy to guy. Personally, I don't like it, but it's not really a turn-off. I'm in love with you. fedoragirl Posted at 1:55 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I think you should be clear with him and say it again just in case he did forget!   Lihiro Posted at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 I don't think I'll ever make the first move. Too shy. Personally, I prefer them being open. LudovicoTechnique Posted at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 It changes from guy to guy. Personally, I don't like it, but it's not really a turn-off. bobbydigital Posted at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 some times its a turn off if a girl texts too much or makes it wayyy to obvious that she likes me Sudo XE Posted at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 YES! honeybee3333 Posted at 1:54 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 really depends ashleyacid Posted at 1:53 pm on Jan. 3, 2009 Just tell him you like it and stop fucking around. Most recent 15 of 16 previous replies displayed.