Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic dudee. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post cozysoxx Posted at 4:15 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Well, i went to this concert not that long ago &&then i met these peopple from the concert, ive been talking to this kid who went, and i think im starting to like himm i talked to him on the phone and everythingg hes so cute hes so sweet to me But the thing is i dont know him much, but when i talk to him i feel like i like him, and he said the same thingg do you think after like we hang out alot it might blossom into something amazinggg what do you thinkk? he makes me so happy ((((:

Replies PrideAndJoy Posted at 4:36 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from Vintorez at 4:26 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from cozysoxx at 7:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy.    The more i think about this the more logical it is. Ive never thought about it like that. what if he's not like everyone else, maybe he'd something special to you, and you might regret it later if you ignore him That goes both ways. What if she meets him, he's like everyone else (which is probably the situation) and now she regrets ever taking things further. She had her little romance perfect with the occasional texts and calls, but once she got to hanging out with him on a daily basis, she fines out he's unintelligent, boring, unfunny, and an asshole. Some of my biggest regrets are really getting to know people and subsequently losing them as friends or girlfriends. It's all a matter of which regret will be the more severe. PrideAndJoy Posted at 4:33 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Also, why is this in the hardware tech forum? Unless this boy you met is a robot, I don't see the relation. Either way, hope my answer was thought provoking and of some assistance. PrideAndJoy Posted at 4:29 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from cozysoxx at 4:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy.   The more i think about this the more logical it is. Ive never thought about it like that. It is an interesting point, though after reading it, it reminds me of an exchange from the movie Good Will Hunting between Will and his counselor: SEAN Well, are you going out again? WILL I don't know. SEAN Why not? WILL Haven't called her. SEAN Jesus Christ, you are an amateur. WILL I know what I'm doing. She's different from the other girls I met. We have a really good time. She's smart, beautiful, fun... SEAN So Christ, call her up. WILL Why? So I can realize she's not so smart. That she's boring. You don't get it. Right now she's perfect, I don't want to ruin that. SEAN And right now you're perfect too. Maybe you don't want to ruin that. SEAN (cont'd) Well, I think that's a great philosophy Will, that way you can go through your entire life without ever having to really know anybody. So depends on how you want to play it, but judging from your pictures, you look young, and at this stage in your life, relationships should be about the thrill and excitement, which is what you clearly have. I can promise you that if things get any deeper, you'll discover something about him, or him you, and the fun will soon be lost. Maybe things will go well for a month or two, maybe even 6 months, but in the end things won't work out, not that they should anyway. Vintorez Posted at 4:26 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from cozysoxx at 7:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy. The more i think about this the more logical it is. Ive never thought about it like that. what if he's not like everyone else, maybe he'd something special to you, and you might regret it later if you ignore him cozysoxx Posted at 4:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy. The more i think about this the more logical it is. Ive never thought about it like that. sub800 Posted at 4:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 DO. IT. GODDAMMIT. kissmeintherain91 Posted at 4:20 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Hang out w him PrideAndJoy Posted at 4:18 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 I think the more you get to know him, the more you'll realize he is like everybody else out there. I would suggest keeping your distance, or else you'll spoil the fantasy. xPicturesOfYou3 Posted at 4:17 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 DO IT!!!!! smiileyyboo Posted at 4:17 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 absolutly girl!:) cozysoxx Posted at 4:17 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Quote: from PrideAndJoy at 7:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Was this a poem or haiku or what? maybe you should re read it.. Vintorez Posted at 4:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 go for it libertybluejay16 Posted at 4:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 yes Joke Posted at 4:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 yeah.. i think you should go for it :D PrideAndJoy Posted at 4:16 pm on Jan. 7, 2009 Was this a poem or haiku or what? Most recent 15 of 15 previous replies displayed.