Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Why is it that every guy I fall for turns out to be a jerk? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post amandalillian9 Posted at 7:28 pm on July 5, 2009 I hate them.

Replies nzm17 Posted at 4:28 am on July 10, 2009 Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:28 pm on July 5, 2009 I hate them. You claim to hate them. Although they give you the emontional roller coaster that you want. nik1 Posted at 2:28 am on July 10, 2009 The odds are against you.  In my opinion most males are jerks.  You will be better off assuming they are jerks and test them for it before becoming emotionally involved. Katey1 Posted at 2:17 am on July 10, 2009 Cuz there all pricks!! JD42305 Posted at 10:00 pm on July 5, 2009 Wow amandalilian9 do you really expect to be a bitch to people and never get treated badly yourself, especially from guys? You deserve everything you get in your failed relationships. Stormblazer Posted at 9:45 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from amandalillian9 at 8:28 pm on July 5, 2009 I hate them. Possibly you're looking in the wrong places / manner. theyareAs Posted at 9:41 pm on July 5, 2009 Guys want love me than you realize, but sometimes when we get close we over criticize and over think everything about said girl. Maybe its a fear of commitment or maybe its we only look for something that has a high chance of promise GFHOPEFUL Posted at 8:43 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:54 pm on July 5, 2009 Good point. Maybe I'll just take a break from the dating world for a while and concentrate on my dancing. Don't waste peoples time. Use some of this advice...you don't know how to be nice? Gee, it's no wonder you fall for jerks... =/ Aimforthehead Posted at 8:06 pm on July 5, 2009 It's for the most part, on your side. You need to change who you are attracted to. amandalillian9 Posted at 7:56 pm on July 5, 2009 Yeah. Dancing never breaks your heart. SpRiNgS Posted at 7:54 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:54 pm on July 5, 2009 Good point. Maybe I'll just take a break from the dating world for a while and concentrate on my dancing. sounds like a plan amandalillian9 Posted at 7:54 pm on July 5, 2009 Good point. Maybe I'll just take a break from the dating world for a while and concentrate on my dancing. SpRiNgS Posted at 7:51 pm on July 5, 2009 First thing first. you're being way overdramatic about never finding the right guy. You've got a WHOLE lot of living to do. I'm only 19 and i'm not worried about finding ms right cause i got PLENTY of time to go through the dating scene until I meet her. You'll find them you just need to stop being so obsessed with finding them also if being nice just isn't you then don't do it if you don't want to. I just mainly made those suggestions if you wanted to find a way to be nice to people and to be honest who cares if others think you're sick when you're nice? amandalillian9 Posted at 7:50 pm on July 5, 2009 Right now I don't even know what I want. All I know is that I never end up falling for the right guy and I think it might never happen. Why is it so hard to find the right person? Being nice just isn't me and when I am nice people think I'm sick. I can only ever manage to be nice for about 5 minutes without making a sarcastic comment/remark or saying something negative to someone. SpRiNgS Posted at 7:47 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:42 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from SpRiNgS at 10:41 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:39 pm on July 5, 2009 never too late to learn           Yeah but how is the question? it's kind of easy once you think  about it    not hurting peoples feelings    thinking before you speak    and that golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated. this one goes far       I've never needed to do this. EVER.Everything's always been right for me and gone my way. So this is like the farthest thing from my normal ways. Right now I'm just wondering is it even worth it? you've never needed to do it and that's why you've never known how to be nice I guess treating others equally shows your kindness. Sometimes you have to get out of old habits and learn new tricks you dont HAVE to do what i'm suggesting but if you want to become a nice person, those things help :) it's only worth it if you want it to be really amandalillian9 Posted at 7:42 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from SpRiNgS at 10:41 pm on July 5, 2009 Quote: from amandalillian9 at 7:39 pm on July 5, 2009 never too late to learn    Yeah but how is the question? it's kind of easy once you think about it not hurting peoples feelings thinking before you speak and that golden rule, treat others how you want to be treated. this one goes far I've never needed to do this. EVER.Everything's always been right for me and gone my way. So this is like the farthest thing from my normal ways. Right now I'm just wondering is it even worth it? Most recent 15 of 42 previous replies displayed.