Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Girls in my life and what to do about them Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post theyareAs Posted at 9:58 pm on July 5, 2009 There are many women in my life. Most of them would go into a relationship with me, Many of them i could mess around with if i so choose, But there is only one that i truly love. She is my best friend, she loves me and i love her.Yet she has a boyfriend and before that really bothered me, but i realized that we both love each other and really thats all i need from her, nothing more. But there are these other girls that i am perhaps giving the wrong impression to. I really want a relationship but im afraid of betraying or of not being there for the girl i love when she could really need me. Besides that i have really no more interest in any of the other girls xcept for friendship and even then at times not even that, which makes me feel like a selfish bastard. -yes i have a heart- What should i do, both for me and for them?

Replies aleiram51 Posted at 10:02 pm on July 5, 2009 That girl, no matter how much she loves you, has chosen someone else. This does not mean that you are required to be there in case she ever needs you.  You are entitled to your own happiness. Go out, find some girl who you can actually be in a relationship with. Be happy.  Stay friends with this chick, but if she has a boyfriend, there's no reason to hang on to this "I love her" type thing.