Adding Reply Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic How do I tell her this? :S Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Ad libitum Posted at 12:35 am on July 4, 2008 Am meeting up with a 'friend' on Monday, although I'm still contemplating whether we should remain friends or not. I have a lot of respect in the girl,  but I just really don't get on with her friends or her boyfriend [who she talks about a lot]. We're meant to be meeting up on Monday to toast the fact that I'm now 18 [turned 18 on the 29th June], and she hasn't been available to go for a drink before then. How do I tell her that I don't know where I stand? And ask whether I'm one of the favourites? I thought if I asked as directly, I might come across as confrontational or something, so how can I be subtle about it? Thanks LW!

Replies blufindr Posted at 12:40 am on July 4, 2008 so just tell her you are unsure about how you stand with her atm, and that you are worried that you are no longer as important to her as you used to be. works for me.