Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic my life Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Solitude[/m] at 4:32 pm on Aug. 1, 2008[quote]You should be proud of yourself for not cutting for a month. That's really good. It shows that you're determined to keep on living and lead a good life. Don't stop there. Don't go back to the way you used to be, because it will just bring down everything that you have tried to build in your life. Don't do it! There's no need to harm yourself at all. It'll just cause more pain and it won't help you at all. You day your life is really messed up right now, do you think cutting will solve the problems? I assure you that it won't.It will only become one more problem to you. I don't exactly know what you're problem is, but I whatever it is can be solved, if it is not within you're reach to solve it, then there's nothing you can do about it, and you should just wait for things to happen. However if you have the ability to solve it, then don't just sit there and wait for things to happen. Do whatever you can to solve whatever problem or problems you have. Don't wait until tomorrow because it might be too late. Do it today! If there's nothing you can do about it then don't even think about it. Just wait for things to happen, and don't worry about it. You're life is precious, and so is your body, it would be an act of disrespect toward yourself to cut. Think about the things that make you happy. What are they? Bring them into your life and be happy because of all the good things that you still have. There has to be something that you have in your life that makes you happy. At least one thing. It can't a ll be bad, there's always something good that we ignore. find that something and think about it more than anything else. Forget the sadness and remember those things that make you happy. Be happy because you are who you are, and because you are coming out of a habit of cutting. Be proud of your self because you're strong.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post sunshinegirl7189 Posted at 1:05 pm on July 30, 2008 my life feels so messed up right now, that i feel like i just wanna die to take away all the pain i have right now or i feel like cutting again (i haven't cut for a month). i wish my life wasn't so messed up right now. any suggestions?

Replies ajakana Posted at 10:02 pm on Aug. 1, 2008 I feel the same way I don't know how I'm going to get through this but I hope things change fast I get pissed that people ask me what's wrongwhen I don't want to tell them because they are only out to judge and look down on me  so talking to someone is not always the correct treatment to recovery not all therapists will believe what you say I went really psyco one time that the lady though I don't laugh,play, or smile I don't like talking to people that much but I talk to my boyfriend a lot because he understands try talkingto your boyfriend and he can lend you a shoulder to cry on and tell you everythings gonna be okay I love when my boyfriend does that he makes me feel like I actually am wanted and needed by at least one person he makes me feel special and want to live life and not cut anymore he's proud of me and I'm proud of myself I cut myself a week ago when I got so frustrated so you did better than me but trust me I'm trying to stop cutting its very hard you and me will get through this together somehow and I hope things change for the both of us for the better very fast ashleynicole600 Posted at 6:21 pm on Aug. 1, 2008 I feel that way sometimes too. Solitude Posted at 4:32 pm on Aug. 1, 2008 You should be proud of yourself for not cutting for a month. That's really good. It shows that you're determined to keep on living and lead a good life. Don't stop there. Don't go back to the way you used to be, because it will just bring down everything that you have tried to build in your life. Don't do it! There's no need to harm yourself at all. It'll just cause more pain and it won't help you at all. You day your life is really messed up right now, do you think cutting will solve the problems? I assure you that it won't.It will only become one more problem to you. I don't exactly know what you're problem is, but I whatever it is can be solved, if it is not within you're reach to solve it, then there's nothing you can do about it, and you should just wait for things to happen. However if you have the ability to solve it, then don't just sit there and wait for things to happen. Do whatever you can to solve whatever problem or problems you have. Don't wait until tomorrow because it might be too late. Do it today! If there's nothing you can do about it then don't even think about it. Just wait for things to happen, and don't worry about it. You're life is precious, and so is your body, it would be an act of disrespect toward yourself to cut. Think about the things that make you happy. What are they? Bring them into your life and be happy because of all the good things that you still have. There has to be something that you have in your life that makes you happy. At least one thing. It can't a ll be bad, there's always something good that we ignore. find that something and think about it more than anything else. Forget the sadness and remember those things that make you happy. Be happy because you are who you are, and because you are coming out of a habit of cutting. Be proud of your self because you're strong. NikkiInkz Posted at 4:03 pm on Aug. 1, 2008 Read something like a magazine or a book you love, take your favourite character and amuse yourself by thinking how they would react. Or, you could bake something. Watch TV. Chat to us online ... My e-mail is Nikki__Inkz@hotmail.com if you need to chat Twlight Vampire00 Posted at 1:37 pm on Aug. 1, 2008 Quote: from sunshinegirl7189 at 1:05 pm on July 30, 2008 my life feels so messed up right now, that i feel like i just wanna die to take away all the pain i have right now or i feel like cutting again (i haven't cut for a month). i wish my life wasn't so messed up right now. any suggestions? don't you'll get threw this blufindr Posted at 12:20 am on Aug. 1, 2008 I'm sorry your life sucks. Why do you feel like you need to? Ifodi Posted at 7:38 am on July 31, 2008 Hey, I only just got your message. Don't cut yourself, it's not the way forward and I think, inside, you know that. There are so many people here, as well as elsewhere, you can talk to and nobody will judge you. If you need to talk EVER just message me, I'll be here for you and even if I'm not online, I'll get your message when I come online. Be strong... xx Eriin136 Posted at 1:24 am on July 31, 2008 dont cut again it ruins your life LostInTheClouds Posted at 4:42 pm on July 30, 2008 I'm proud of you for not cutting again. It makes me feel that maybe something I've said to you at some point has helped you out just a little. The only real suggestion that I can give you, you've probably heard from me before. I would strongly suggest that you talk to someone who you can trust. A friend, a family member, or even someone here on Livewire. Just trust me when I say that it will make you feel just that much better. It is probably the worst thing you can do to bottle your emotions up like you're probably doing right now. Something else that you could do would be to find a new coping method to keep your mind off of whatever pain you are feeling right now. I mean, you could take up a new hobby, or take up an old one that you haven't taken part in for a while. You could write, exercise, listen to music, etc. There are just a complete vastness of ideas out there to help you. You just have to find that one thing that is going to make a difference for you. Things get better. They always do...I promise. Just remember Hun, if you ever need to talk about anything at all, I'm here. Just send me a message. xxemolovingkidxx Posted at 1:41 pm on July 30, 2008 just try hard, i mean i can't really go in and say dont do it.. because i do, but jamesish Posted at 1:13 pm on July 30, 2008 Seek professional help. Silence of Thought Posted at 1:13 pm on July 30, 2008 Talk to a therapist. iimjustbadnews Posted at 1:09 pm on July 30, 2008 Defiantly do not get back into that old, habitual routine of self destruction. Try to go for a jog, or out with friends... Maybe baking a cake, or doing something productive will help. Hass Posted at 1:09 pm on July 30, 2008 Quote: from LightThisCity at 4:06 pm on July 30, 2008 bake a cake full of rainbows and smiley faces that's what I do when I'm sad. Then not only am I sad, but I'm also a sad gay. tennisplayerV2 Posted at 1:08 pm on July 30, 2008 punch a pillow really hard...if you want someone to talk to i am here...just message me and i will give you my number. Most recent 15 of 17 previous replies displayed.