Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic FAILURE Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]lovestruck13[/m] at 10:36 am on Aug. 14, 2008[quote]your'e just having a bad week. that doesn't mean you're a failure.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 10:35 am on Aug. 14, 2008 i always thought i could kid myself into thinking i wasn't a failure. fairly good grades, good social life, hobbies, dreams and friends etc. today and this week just proved how wrong i can be. it was put in front of me in black and white. i completely failed 2 of my AS Exams and barely passed one but i good grade on the other. i have to rethink and plan another route into uni cos im not gonna get the grades i need. my friends were extremely unsupportive as they were caught up in all the hype of getting A's and B's and they forgot all about me. i now feel very distant from them and an outcast cos they all did so well and dont have to worry about a thing. whereas i have to replan my entire future. earlier this week i fell of my horse, nearly crashed my instuctors car and failed a mock driving test. All in 1 week. like i said FAILURE. its now written across my forehead for everyone to see.

Replies acausedelle Posted at 12:34 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 You aren't a failure! You are just making yourself think that. You are just having a bad week. Everyone has those. You may just have been stressed out when you took those AS exams. You need to really get your grades up if you want to be accepted. You still can do that. Just concentrate on your work more. It helped me get to high honors when I really needed to. If your friends are that unsupportive, then why are they your friends? Real friends are supportive whenever you need it. You don't need friends like that. Try finding new ones. When you failed the mock driving test, it could have been avoided, but you can still take it again. Just study what you need to, take it again, and pass it! The other things that went wrong really were arbitrary. You can't really avoid them. They just happen extemporaneously. You aren't a failure for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Really, you aren't a failure. You just need to work harder on the things that you can change, and the arbitrary misfortunes you just have to deal with. We all go through this. It is nothing new. If you want to talk, you can always PM me.. drunkenmess Posted at 12:19 pm on Aug. 14, 2008 don't make your self think that. Catzcore Posted at 10:43 am on Aug. 14, 2008 shouldnt plan too far ahead next time. you're not a failure though. Seidell Posted at 10:42 am on Aug. 14, 2008 That is far from failure. Look at those people who drop out in Middle School and then bitch because they can't find jobs. Trust me, you are not a failure, everyone in life goes through a period of bad times when it seems everything they do is wrong, etc... but if you work hard etc... you can do good  in everything. I mean, you are not a failure, stop saying that. iguana hunter1 Posted at 10:41 am on Aug. 14, 2008 your a teen man, don't worry so much about the future, just keep your head where you are and then worry about what you want to do when the time comes nickiiROCKETSHIP Posted at 10:39 am on Aug. 14, 2008 Eugh. Same here..I get depressed if I don't get A in anything. I'm pretty nerdy.. kingduffy Posted at 10:39 am on Aug. 14, 2008 Your not a failure, lots of rich people have made it without grades, and thats because they were determind not to fail in life justbadnews Posted at 10:36 am on Aug. 14, 2008 uh, that's not failure. everyone has a different path to go along, you just gotta find yours King Kong Posted at 10:36 am on Aug. 14, 2008 you can resite them, you do know that lovestruck13 Posted at 10:36 am on Aug. 14, 2008 your'e just having a bad week. that doesn't mean you're a failure. All 10 previous replies displayed.