Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic yet again Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]ParkerJai[/m] at 9:19 am on Sep. 23, 2008[quote]i'm beginning to think that i am the one person who picks out people with problems to surround her and then when i need someone no one is there... like i sacrifice myself for others to be happy but no one will do the same for me[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post ParkerJai Posted at 9:17 am on Sep. 23, 2008 Why is it every time i open up to someone finally and everything seems to be going great that i get my heart ripped out and stomped on then burned?? like seriously right now my heart hurts

Replies schoon Posted at 11:37 am on Sep. 23, 2008 I know what you mean 100%. I was with a girl for 7 months and she suddenly dumped me without warning and started dating someone that everyone considered a scumbag...and I couldn't even be mad at her...all i could do was hurt. But that's part of life...you have to make risks to have anything worthwhile. I understand you're hurting (and i have felt that physical pain that you mentioned), but I stuck with it and picked up the pieces and moved on...it's been two years since then, and for the last year I've been with someone else and my life has never been better. I know that if something happens with this girl that I'm with now it will hurt, but if I hold back, then I KNOW that it won't work out. Remember, You're braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. ParkerJai Posted at 9:21 am on Sep. 23, 2008 i try not to dwell on the hurt... i am the type of person that's like yea this sux for me and i'm depressed but at least they are happy Just Waiting Here Posted at 9:20 am on Sep. 23, 2008 I suppose it's a part of life.  When you open up to someone, you give them the chance to hurt you in one of the worst ways.  You think the risk is worth it... love is like playing a game in a sense (At least in my opinion).  You open yourself up to hurt, and it requires trust and in a sense taking a risk to do so.  But you deem it worth it... but you're bound to get hurt sometimes, and other times, you're bound to find someone that would do anything ~not~ to hurt you.  It just takes time to find those people (whether they be friends, family, or a relationship). That's how I see it. HelHound Posted at 9:19 am on Sep. 23, 2008  I'm gonna tell you what my mom always tells me,   "Its life, you can't dwell on the hurt, move forward to the next adventure," Dont Notice Me Posted at 9:19 am on Sep. 23, 2008 another reason why i'm afraid of people... ParkerJai Posted at 9:19 am on Sep. 23, 2008 i'm beginning to think that i am the one person who picks out people with problems to surround her and then when i need someone no one is there... like i sacrifice myself for others to be happy but no one will do the same for me All 6 previous replies displayed.