Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I don't want to cut anymore... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]SpeakYourMindMember[/m] at 2:09 pm on Sep. 30, 2008[quote]Ok, then stop cutting.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 2:09 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 I want to stop cutting, seriously. I have scars on my legs, arms, and stomach. I've had enough. I actually haven't cut in over a month, and before that it had been many months. My problem is that it still crosses my mind. I did it for four years, so I know I can't just put it down and forget. But, fuck, I'm tired of it! I saw a girl who had scars on her arm, then one day gauze, and it's so fucking triggering. Every time I see her I want to be like "So, how did you get away with that living in the dorms and all?"

Replies speardream Posted at 2:49 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Well, I know you can't just stop something that you've been doing or so long, It's like smoking and the nicotine is pain. I also know that these emotions can't stay bottled up. If you ever need any one to talk to, PM me. And if it's not me you'd like to talk to, maybe a close friends, parents, someone you trust. I wish you the best of luck and hope to be hearing from you soon. Anonymous Posted at 2:18 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 To all the people who say it's "easy" and to "just stop". Shove it. You have not the slightest idea what it's like. Cutting yourself once or twice because your boyfriend broke up with you or mommy told you to clean your room doesn't mean you know what it's like to be ADDICTED. There's a fucking difference. Anonymous Posted at 2:16 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Quote: from Aliboo at 2:13 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 I would suggest professional help, a support group, the like. i'll leave you some stuff to look at treatment and counseling; American Psychological Association - locator.apa.org - counseling services locator AAMFT - www.therapistlocator.net - counseling services locator Befrienders Worldwide - www.befrienders.org - treatment and counseling services locator SAMHSA - findtreatment.samhsa.gov - substance abuse treatment center locator   SAMHSA - mentalhealth.samhsa.gov - mental health services locator   AACC - www.aacc.net - Christian counseling services locator For Help with SELF-INJURY: S.A.F.E. - www.selfinjury.com - "S.A.F.E. ALTERNATIVES is a nationally recognized treatment approach, professional network, and educational resource base, which is committed to helping you and others achieve an end to self-injurious behavior."   Self Mutilators Anonymous - www.selfmutilatorsanonymous.org - "Self Mutilators Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other, that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from physical self-mutilation." S.A.F.E. Alternatives - www.selfinjury.com - 1-800-Dontcut - Self Abuse Finally Ends these are from twloha.com good luck Wow, thank you. I love twloha and may some day grow the balls to buy a shirt. Scandol5Mossie Posted at 2:15 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 just quit i did...it was fairly easy.. Aliboo Posted at 2:13 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 I would suggest professional help, a support group, the like. i'll leave you some stuff to look at treatment and counseling; American Psychological Association -  locator.apa.org - counseling services locator AAMFT -  www.therapistlocator.net - counseling services locator Befrienders Worldwide -  www.befrienders.org - treatment and counseling services locator SAMHSA -  findtreatment.samhsa.gov - substance abuse treatment center locator SAMHSA -  mentalhealth.samhsa.gov - mental health services locator AACC -  www.aacc.net - Christian counseling services locator For Help with SELF-INJURY: S.A.F.E. -  www.selfinjury.com - "S.A.F.E. ALTERNATIVES is a nationally recognized treatment approach, professional network, and educational resource base, which is committed to helping you and others achieve an end to self-injurious behavior." Self Mutilators Anonymous - www.selfmutilatorsanonymous.org - "Self Mutilators Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other, that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from physical self-mutilation." S.A.F.E. Alternatives -  www.selfinjury.com - 1-800-Dontcut - Self Abuse Finally Ends these are from twloha.com good luck BleedingSteelWings Posted at 2:12 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 a girlfriend of mine used to do that. I urged her to stop and it worked. LaWhoren Posted at 2:12 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 stop cutting have sex hooray for rootbeer Posted at 2:11 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 PM me if you want to know how to get your cutting under control.  I finally do, and it's great.  It's easier than you may think. Silver Shinigami Posted at 2:10 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 if you want to stop then stop and don't start any of that it's too hard crap. Find a strong willed person and have them check your arm,legs...etc. if you want to stop then stop. guitar lover Posted at 2:10 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 wow SpeakYourMindMember Posted at 2:09 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 Ok, then stop cutting. Anonymous Posted at 2:09 pm on Sep. 30, 2008 I want to stop cutting, seriously. I have scars on my legs, arms, and stomach. I've had enough. I actually haven't cut in over a month, and before that it had been many months. My problem is that it still crosses my mind. I did it for four years, so I know I can't just put it down and forget. But, fuck, I'm tired of it! I saw a girl who had scars on her arm, then one day gauze, and it's so fucking triggering. Every time I see her I want to be like "So, how did you get away with that living in the dorms and all?" All 12 previous replies displayed.