Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic omg..rape! Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]LaWhoren[/m] at 7:35 pm on Oct. 11, 2008[quote]no let her bring it up if she wana[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 7:34 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 what do you say to someone who has been raped?!...like i have a friend who was and i just dont know how to comfort her..its been like a week or two and i dont know if i should bring it up or what?!

Replies amiee Posted at 9:19 am on Oct. 12, 2008 the best thing my friend did for me was to just hug me close. it's all i needed. as someone else said, don't bring it up unless she does. make it clear you're there for her if she ever needs to talk, ask her if she wants to talk about it, but if she says no then that's ok. give her some time. if she knows you're there for her she'll bring it up when she's good and ready. and.. y'know, try to make her feel special. remind her that she's special and love and cared for. jmh77 Posted at 7:42 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Quote: from Uncontrollable at 7:35 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Don't bring it up. Wait for her to bring it up. ^ switchfoot52 Posted at 7:39 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Quote: from Uncontrollable at 9:35 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Don't bring it up. Wait for her to bring it up. yes and listen to what she has to say. don't act totally shocked and overreacting either. CoraLee Posted at 7:37 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Actually I am just learning about this in Crisis class. You are supposed to bring it up. You are supposed to support her, let her know everything is going to be okay. Help her through this time and especially help her with reporting it. Quantumleaper Posted at 7:36 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Ritual Do you know what it is like to run? do you know what it is Like to live in fear? because she knows what it’s like to run. Because she knows what it’s like to live in fear. rape ritual. How can I stand in silence while you are raping my sister? Ritual! throw it in the wind because I ain’t with that. say, What have we done with mother, sister, daughter, lover? beat Them down to submission, into that corner of constant fear. Humanity reduced to a sexual commodity, objectification, Pretty faces. molded imagery damn they drop the dirty mack Demands. she’s more than booty to me; bypass her sexuality. Tradition, your sexism is what you want me to learn. surrender Gender hatred, fade it to kill it, compassion returns. 1 out Of 3, and they say my sisters are free, incarcerated by hat- Red. propagated by sodomny, continual ritual victimizing my Sister. physical rape is psychological murder. ritual! jenny! Ho! slut! trick! bit*h! buddy! terms that burn in our popular Brutality. that media camera’s at you, trying to show you What’s up. illusion magazine fantasy got you feinding to bust A nut. body identity suffocates in her nudity - she’s dying Inside. fashions asking won’t let her be. strip her to flesh For apathetic male ego. you bet the set ain’t down with your Wak. rape ritual! we got to meet this hate with love. we got To meet this hatred with love. why do we fall for it, fuel it, Sexual violence equality? please. so-called alternative move- Ment statistics never confess her wounded aloneness , internal Inferno, locked away calm diminishment. sharon stone, you Ain’t all that. madonna, you ain’t all that. sell you shallow Shock value charade is wak. sister, put a fist in what’s Expected of you. deny! defy! false definition of you too; There’s no excuse for this brutality or this lack of humanity. Rape ritual. I say I throw you into the wind. I say your Traditions mean nothing to me. emmywashere3849 Posted at 7:36 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 let her bring it up... Anonymous Posted at 7:36 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 i didnt rape her! but i do love her Bearsy Posted at 7:35 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 there are other fish in the sea LaWhoren Posted at 7:35 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 no let her bring it up if she wana Uncontrollable Posted at 7:35 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Don't bring it up. Wait for her to bring it up. All 10 previous replies displayed.