Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic secrets not kept secret Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]ThisVampireHeart[/m] at 11:18 am on Oct. 23, 2008[quote]half of my friends are very judgemental, but i still love them. the other half are not, i love them too. obviously i'd tell the non-judgemental friends things that are important to me, recently the fact i did some minor self harming and that i'm planning to have sex with my boyfriend. as you might guess one of these friends was 'worried' about me, now all of my 'friends' know. not only does this mean that i feel betrayed by my friend but now i have to put up with slut jokes and possibly being turned in to student services for hurting myself. what can i do? i had a reason for keep it from them and now everything is fucked up.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post ThisVampireHeart Posted at 11:18 am on Oct. 23, 2008 half of my friends are very judgemental, but i still love them. the other half are not, i love them too. obviously i'd tell the non-judgemental friends things that are important to me, recently the fact i did some minor self harming and that i'm planning to have sex with my boyfriend. as you might guess one of these friends was 'worried' about me, now all of my 'friends' know. not only does this mean that i feel betrayed by my friend but now i have to put up with slut jokes and possibly being turned in to student services for hurting myself. what can i do? i had a reason for keep it from them and now everything is fucked up.

Replies tell me again Posted at 11:39 am on Oct. 23, 2008 Ugh, it sucks when a "worried friend" doesn't have common sense to not tell someone something. I think the best thing to do is just to wait for it to blow over...sorry to say. Don't avoid your "judgmental" friends though, and try to talk sensibly with them so that they realize that you aren't any different. (But if they're really getting to you... kick their ass. =/ ) Crackbuddy Posted at 11:27 am on Oct. 23, 2008 yeah alot of teens are having sex... && i would jus talk to her.... and probly jus not trust that girl wit stuff like that........ Randomx123 Posted at 11:21 am on Oct. 23, 2008 thats not self-harming at all, most ppl are having sex as teens. All 3 previous replies displayed.