Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Reply with your most painful moment... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]fastnfurshan[/m] at 12:49 pm on Oct. 28, 2008[quote]I was at a Sweet 16 party...I was having a pretty good time. My best girl friend was there too, and I liked her a lot at the time. Like really a lot. At one point a slow song came on...I was talking to my friend and her when it came on...My friend, I guess trying to help me out, told this girl "You should dance with Josh (me)"...I was standing right there when he said it, and I looked at her for a reaction. Her reaction wasnt of disgust, but I could see in her eyes, she absolutely did not want to dance with me. I said to my friend but within earshot of her "Nah man she doesnt wanna dance with me" and i started to walk off, i guess in an attempt to see if she'd be like, "No ill dance with you!"...but she didnt. I mean im over her now...but at that point it just hurt me so much because I wasnt sure if she liked me or not the way i liked her...[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post fastnfurshan Posted at 12:49 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 I was at a Sweet 16 party...I was having a pretty good time. My best girl friend was there too, and I liked her a lot at the time. Like really a lot. At one point a slow song came on...I was talking to my friend and her when it came on...My friend, I guess trying to help me out, told this girl "You should dance with Josh (me)"...I was standing right there when he said it, and I looked at her for a reaction. Her reaction wasnt of disgust, but I could see in her eyes, she absolutely did not want to dance with me. I said to my friend but within earshot of her "Nah man she doesnt wanna dance with me" and i started to walk off, i guess in an attempt to see if she'd be like, "No ill dance with you!"...but she didnt. I mean im over her now...but at that point it just hurt me so much because I wasnt sure if she liked me or not the way i liked her...

Replies silverbullets Posted at 10:06 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 most paainfull moment emotionally would have to be when i was 17,  2 weeks after my mom kicked me out and my dad said he didnt want me, the school i had to transfer to kicked me out cause i had no legal guardian cause noone wanted me fastnfurshan Posted at 6:25 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 I'd also have to put my grandmothers' death. Although I wasnt all that close to her, it still hurt a lot. But the worst part of it was seeing my dad cry for the first time ever. And my dads step dad, the widow of my grandmother, had been binge drinking leading up to her death...hes an alcoholic... DyingRaven Posted at 5:03 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 Most painful moment (emotionally), I didnt talk to my dad for like a year much. he called and i would talk but not much, and when he came here i'd lock my door. He called one night and i was bitchy like o thats nice, good to kno, then i said i gotta go. I felt bad so i called bk the night after or so and i left messages saying answer cuz im just gonna keep calling, tha wa the night hh got airlifted to toronto hospital. Other then the pain of thinking he'd die without me saying how sorry i was, when i saw him my heart hit the floor, he wasen't in pain (so drugged up) but he looke so sad. He had a tube in his mouth to breathe so he couldn't speak but he grabbed my hand.....I couldn't stop crying, but i told him i loved him. Then walked out of there. I came bk the next week (my mom wouldnt drive up there everyday) and he wasent responsive, but his eyes were open, blood was gushing from his mouth and into a tube. His eyes were filled with sorrow, crying blood. I felt terrible, and i still havent accepted his death, it doesnt seem real to me. I still call him praying he'll answer, but i just get the machine....He died october 7th of this year. And I'd say that's my most emotionally painful moment XxPaperFlowersxX Posted at 1:08 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 When I found out I was cheated on by my ex with 4 other girls. A whole bunch of other crap to but I dont feel like explaining. Hysteria Posted at 12:59 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 My grandad died of lung cancer and seeing him dieing was the hardest thing I've ever been through, I just felt completely numb and helpless.  I'd known him all my life but still didn't feel like I'd appreciated him enough or knew that much about him but he was so kind and loving.  When he died I just felt completely detatched and I didn't cry until his funeral when one of the readers said that he'd loved me and my sisters so much, it made me completely breakdown. jsgirl Posted at 12:54 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 This one time I could totally hear these girls talking shit about me. I mean, I was right there, and they were doing it deliberately to hurt my feelings. I was only like 14 then and it killed. I ran to the bathroom and cried so hard. They were so terrible to me, they even convinced the guy I liked that I was a slut. Every time he say me he would look away with disgust. What a fucking mean thing to do. However, they all know now that I am better off than them. I saw two of them at a mutual friends bridal shower. Still snobby and pissy. They were at it again with their rude comments about me, I was like that was almost 5 years ago. But you should have seen their faces fall when I was announced as a bridesmaid and they were not. The bride even said that I "radiated" with kindness, and everyone agreed. So I guess I killed them with kindness. Joep0113 Posted at 12:52 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations theAnomie Posted at 12:51 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 Probably when I fractured my spine. Not at the time, I was drunk and didn't really feel it. Not when I woke up, I was partially paralysed. Just after the initial wave of scans and drugs. Now that hurt! yayamonkeys Posted at 12:51 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 Quote: from theboxman at 2:49 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 My dad was an abuse drug user who had battered my mom and my siblings. He was arrested for assault and was in jail but made bond and came back to the house after we had filed an order of protection. He broke into the house with a club and was chasing my mother. I stepped between them and we fought. I knocked him down and a gun fell onto the floor from under his jacket. My mother was on the phone with the police. We both went for the gun on the floor. We fought - I got the gun and fired a shot to "warn" him he came at me and we ran into the bathroom while on the phone with the police. He kicked in the door and had a knife and I shot him. r u serious?!?!?!!? Aero360 Posted at 12:50 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 Oh emotional pain.  Here I was about to talk about a very painful moment while playing basketball, physically painful that is. theboxman Posted at 12:49 pm on Oct. 28, 2008 My dad was an abuse drug user who had battered my mom and my siblings. He was arrested for assault and was in jail but made bond and came back to the house after we had filed an order of protection. He broke into the house with a club and was chasing my mother. I stepped between them and we fought. I knocked him down and a gun fell onto the floor from under his jacket. My mother was on the phone with the police. We both went for the gun on the floor. We fought - I got the gun and fired a shot to "warn" him he came at me and we ran into the bathroom while on the phone with the police. He kicked in the door and had a knife and I shot him. All 11 previous replies displayed.