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SamanthaLouise
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Posted at 7:37 am on Dec. 18, 2008 |
| The rubber band around the wrist thing is really helpful, I've tried that for a while and now i dont cut as much as i used to, only twice in the past month so i'm quite proud =] |
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Bakker
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Posted at 10:06 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
I used to self-harm really bad about a year ago, cutting, burning, etc, and still do sometimes. What you need to do is to concentrate on reducing, before stopping entirely. What's really useful is if you keep a rubber band around your wrist, and ping it against the soft inside but instead of cutting, or hold onto ice cubes until they melt. |
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idontwanttobehere
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Posted at 4:52 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| wow the last two really helpful thanks. {sarcasm} |
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plumc0la
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Posted at 4:52 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| I know you said in a non-people way, but talk to someone. Whether it be your best friend, your parents, boyfriend/girlfriend, school counselor, anything. Talking about it is the first step. Trust me. |
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Desertfoxel
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Posted at 4:45 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| i dont get the whole cutting thing! just stop! do something else, watch a movie or something |
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Ska Ninja
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Posted at 4:43 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| don't do it |
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KrisLuvsCars
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Posted at 4:39 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| When i tried to stop it made me even more stressed out, then i decided i needed someone elses help. Talk to someone who wont judge you, try your best friend or a close family member. Keep i diary or a journal. When you just cant take it anymore. Write about it. |
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babybluebitch
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Posted at 4:39 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| i'm doing it too so im no help i cant stop cutting thats like my drug |
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libertybluejay16
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Posted at 4:39 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| i used to hate people who cut themselves to " get rid of the pain" but then i got close to someone who does it, you just really need someone there with you, Ive never cut before, but when im angry to the point that i think i might do something bad, i go out running, or work out, it really helps your channel your feelings |
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IWantYou1991
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Posted at 4:38 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| It's hard when I started I never knew it would be an addiction, whenever i get stressed, it is the only thing i can think of. I haven't done it for a while, but I still think about it every day. I don't know what to tell ya |
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Cherry Clouds
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Posted at 4:37 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| Don't cut, scream into a pillow. |
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GBW 26
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Posted at 4:37 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| You have to find a new outlet for stress. I turned to working out myself. |
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911teen org
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Posted at 4:37 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| it takes alot to stop... lets talk |
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LightThisCity
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Posted at 4:36 pm on Dec. 17, 2008 |
| work out. |
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