Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic He finally found out :( Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]lestat1990[/m] at 6:28 pm on Jan. 2, 2009[quote]tell him you know he cares but thats about all he can do. this is somthing you have to solve because you all ready have everything you need to stop you just need to do it. and when you have a relapse just tell him rome wasn't built in a day and that you're working on it and you love him and you promise not to kill urself[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 6:23 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 I'll admit that I am a teen cutter, I have been for more then yrs. I recently continued it  this year after a year break, why i have no fucking clue. Today I went and visited my boyfriend, He knows I haven't been sleeping well, so we watched a movie and of course, I fall asleep WITHOUT MY HUDDY!!! He then discovered my cuts on my arms right above my crook in my left arm and asked if I wanted to commit suicide. I tried to change the subject but he kept asking and asking more and more questions until I finally said enough and let him look at them more closely so he could make sure they were ok. Now he says he is worried about me, and that he wants me to tell him each time i cut, to let him see the cut and for me to have a "logical" reason why i did so. He said if I do not do this then he will tell my mom and grandparents so I can get "help" PROBLEM IS I ALREADY HAVE HELP!!! I don't want help, i don't need it, I am fine, but he doesn't think so. So I get my stress, emotions and anger out in a different way, whats the matter with that? I need to stop, at least until he simmers down and forgets all of this. Any ideas?

Replies DADDYS LITTLE GIRL Posted at 7:42 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 He's only concerned because he cares about you and its no suprised he flipped out about it, instead of cutting when you feel down you should talk to him let him know whats going on. Elisee Posted at 6:44 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 I think you should stop.. There are far better ways to get your emotions out then cutting your self believe me. Your boyfriends right you need help. tinarh1 Posted at 6:31 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 then just dont cut...he is flipping bc he cares....dont cut period again, talk to someone when u are feeling down in the dumps, cutting wont solve the problom, but talking 2 ppl about your probloms will xxpsychoxx285xx Posted at 6:30 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 well, obviously try to stop. it's so much easier said then done... maybe try writing about why you want to cut every time the urge arises. or if your boyfriend wants to help you...call him and talk to him every time you want to cut. you don't necessarily have to tell him why you're calling but at least it may serve as a distraction. lestat1990 Posted at 6:28 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 tell him you know he cares but thats about all he can do. this is somthing you have to solve because you all ready have everything you need to stop you just need to do it. and when you have a relapse just tell him rome wasn't built in a day and that you're working on it and you love him and you promise not to kill urself Anonymous Posted at 6:27 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 What I mean by help, is a therapist. I'm not really asking for help, but for advice, I need my bf off my back and I need to stop...for now. ElizabethCox Posted at 6:24 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 You say your fine. If you don't want or need help, then who can help you? sdkarr Posted at 6:24 pm on Jan. 2, 2009 when my bf found out, he flipped. I MEAN FLIPPED!! and i'm so glad he did. because he got me to stop!   just get help. trust me All 8 previous replies displayed.