Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Is there somethign wrong with me Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]spaniellvr011388[/m] at 8:07 am on Jan. 8, 2009[quote]Ok I'll start off with I live in Va and have a daughter who is 2 and I am almost 7 months pregnant with my son.  I've been with this guy for over a year and I question all the time if I'm in love with him and the reasons why we got together.  I know I am head over heels in love with this guy in FL.. who honestly in reality even though we dated off and on and feel the same there is no chance that we will be together.  We tried for 2 years to be together almost and it never worked out for both of our situations.  I am currently not working because dr took me out of work months ago because i was passing out when standing for long periods of time.. I wonder if I'm still with the guy now for the childs sake.  We argue all the time.. We are currently in counceling but he said why go if we don'ttry to work things out.  How can you things out with someone who is never home or always busy doing his own thing.  It hurts to wonder where my life is going but I feel like I'm in this deep hole.  I just don't know what to do anymore.  The ones I care about are never around and the ones who are always around are the ones who do nothing but question my options and tell me what they want for me.  because of me not working I sit at home all day which is really boring and wonder what if things were done differently.  Wondering what is the right thing for me and my kids.  sorry i just needed to vent and this isnt even the half of it...[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post spaniellvr011388 Posted at 8:07 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Ok I'll start off with I live in Va and have a daughter who is 2 and I am almost 7 months pregnant with my son.  I've been with this guy for over a year and I question all the time if I'm in love with him and the reasons why we got together.  I know I am head over heels in love with this guy in FL.. who honestly in reality even though we dated off and on and feel the same there is no chance that we will be together.  We tried for 2 years to be together almost and it never worked out for both of our situations.  I am currently not working because dr took me out of work months ago because i was passing out when standing for long periods of time.. I wonder if I'm still with the guy now for the childs sake.  We argue all the time.. We are currently in counceling but he said why go if we don'ttry to work things out.  How can you things out with someone who is never home or always busy doing his own thing.  It hurts to wonder where my life is going but I feel like I'm in this deep hole.  I just don't know what to do anymore.  The ones I care about are never around and the ones who are always around are the ones who do nothing but question my options and tell me what they want for me.  because of me not working I sit at home all day which is really boring and wonder what if things were done differently.  Wondering what is the right thing for me and my kids.  sorry i just needed to vent and this isnt even the half of it...

Replies starla91 Posted at 2:58 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 that must have been a shock moving in with eachother:/ spaniellvr011388 Posted at 2:53 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 we have been together over a year and the fighting didn't start until we moved into together and had to live with roommates.. basically when we lost our private lifes... starla91 Posted at 1:09 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 well it's good that she's not around to hear the arguments. but that must be really frustrating to have someone who always wants things to go their way. how long have you guys been fighting? and how long have you two been together? spaniellvr011388 Posted at 12:55 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 no she doesn't hear them.  He just wants everything to go his way all the time and both of us can just say one word to one another and it sprawls out into a huge argument.. starla91 Posted at 12:09 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 it's a shame you can't get out and do somthing during the days since you faint and all. But yeah, you should just try to think about why you are with him. and give the councelling a chance to work out. He probably has a side to this story aswell and it'd be great if you two were both able to see it from eachother perspectives, perhaps you already see it from his I don't know :/. it's a tricky situation that's for sure. especially with a kid involved and another on the way. how is your kid taking all the fights? I hope for her sake she isn't around to hear them :/. lalacakes Posted at 8:36 am on Jan. 8, 2009 if your miserable then you need to be wit someone who makes you happy. do you want to be with someone you cant stand untill your dying days.? Me and my ex of 2 years whom i lost my virginity too we used to fight everyday and he treated me so wrong but i loved him you know. well now that i left him i found a new boyfriend and omg i love him with all my heart words cant explain how much i love him and he is so nice to me and im always smiling when im with him. leaving my ex was the best thing that ive ever done for myself. PreppyPeyton Posted at 8:13 am on Jan. 8, 2009 Just seriously think about if you love him or not, if you don't leave him. spaniellvr011388 Posted at 8:11 am on Jan. 8, 2009 haha not the kind of support im looking for gief Posted at 8:10 am on Jan. 8, 2009 quit fucking, put the dick down. All 9 previous replies displayed.