Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic How do I get over this? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]allaboutfun[/m] at 10:19 pm on Jan. 8, 2009[quote]I have a couple friends like that. It's hard to be around negativity. Think about all the good things. Every time you're about to say something negative, think about a positive in it and say that instead - or at the least, say it after the negative thing.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post One Two Step Posted at 10:16 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 My friends have been telling me about how negative i am, well just one of my friends. he said that i never say anything positive. i never noticed it. well, i realized it's because i think if i say something positive i'm going to regret it later like: "i really like that guy or i made a new friend today" then later on i'll regret even saying stuff like that.

Replies Helios Posted at 11:53 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 If its just one friend maybe you arent the one who is negative maybe they are...though if you always think that you will regret saying something positive that might be a clue. We all regret things that we say whether they be positive or negative. If you feel he may be right just try and look on the positive side of everything you can. bmxboy Posted at 10:20 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 WTF some of these comments are awful - just be yourself! allaboutfun Posted at 10:19 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 I have a couple friends like that. It's hard to be around negativity. Think about all the good things. Every time you're about to say something negative, think about a positive in it and say that instead - or at the least, say it after the negative thing. Desertfoxel Posted at 10:19 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 people like positive people, so be more positive, its not hard ChemicEmotions Posted at 10:18 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Well, you just need to stop being negative and regretful. That's all that you can do; it's your own will-power. blufindr Posted at 10:18 pm on Jan. 8, 2009 Don't think about it, just say it. All 6 previous replies displayed.