Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic So im trying my fucking hardest.. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]visualcandyxo[/m] at 12:11 pm on July 2, 2009[quote]not to sink back into the old routine of cutting to get over stuff =/ basically, i went through a tough time where i was really snappy at everyone, and now pretty much everyone thinks I'm a bitch. Ive even stopped blaming all this shit on other people and accepting its my fucking actions that caused me to have no friends.. but no matter how hard i try, people still think I'm bitchy and pathetic.. no ones talking to me and i spend most days on my own, blaming myself for fucking my own life up.. i mean, everyone goes through tough time, right? what ever happened to forgive and forget?? so yeah.. i dunno how much longer i can hold out for =/[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post visualcandyxo Posted at 12:11 pm on July 2, 2009 not to sink back into the old routine of cutting to get over stuff =/ basically, i went through a tough time where i was really snappy at everyone, and now pretty much everyone thinks I'm a bitch. Ive even stopped blaming all this shit on other people and accepting its my fucking actions that caused me to have no friends.. but no matter how hard i try, people still think I'm bitchy and pathetic.. no ones talking to me and i spend most days on my own, blaming myself for fucking my own life up.. i mean, everyone goes through tough time, right? what ever happened to forgive and forget?? so yeah.. i dunno how much longer i can hold out for =/

Replies bigajosep Posted at 11:12 pm on July 13, 2009 do something before u go back to cutting. change your lifestyle in someway, and if that doesnt work, change it in another. for example, never go home if home is where u cut beholder Posted at 8:56 am on July 13, 2009 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations twisted angel Posted at 12:46 am on July 13, 2009 Heyy hang in there life can be tough, when i was in year 7 my whole group turned against me becuase one girl made up stuff about me and everyone in the group hated me and it all happened in one day and i had no idea why. I didnt even do anything, i am not saying i am an angel or anything. But about a month later they kept on being a bitch to me but i found a great group of friends that i stayed with for a year, then progressed onto annother group wich i am currently in now but my two best friends from my high school are in the group that i moved to after those girls started being total stuck up bitches to me. Now some of them are apologising to me and say how sorry they are and be nice to me, but i will never trust them again. So just hang in there, from my experience and some of my friends experiences everyone comes around. People find out who you are in time, and you will find great friends when everything seems like shit and there is knowbody to turn to, a nice group or someone will come up out of the blue. Just give it some time, dont go back to cutting and being snappy becuase you can already see what it did to your life and you dont want to go back there after you have gotten this far. PM me if you ever need to talk. Hope i hlped Twisted Angel :) Ken01 Posted at 9:33 pm on July 12, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from oskarsback at 12:12 pm on July 2, 2009 You can hang in there! Everthing gets better shut up, some things just dont get better. There will always be a battle to deal with, we just need to learn to accept it and keep fighting. There will be battles but not everything is so overcomplicated in this world. Some wounds just need time and patience. And to the original poster, just stay strong and hold out as things will get better, you'll get no where if you give up. I, as most everyone else, am here if you need to talk. :) Feel better. etf1249 Posted at 11:22 am on July 10, 2009 Don't You Have To Apologise To Be Forgiven? newmie66 Posted at 6:14 pm on July 2, 2009 I was anorexic for two years and during that time I struggled to be nice to anyone. I know exactly how you feel and basically as I recovered, time seemed to mend my relationships with people. I'd be happy to talk to you anytime if you just need someone to listen. Feel free to PM me! Lucid Nightmare Posted at 4:37 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:45 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Lucid Nightmare at 12:41 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:27 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Lucid Nightmare at 12:19 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from oskarsback at 12:12 pm on July 2, 2009 You can hang in there! Everthing gets better    shut up, some things just dont get better. There will always be a battle to deal with, we just need to learn to accept it and keep fighting.       Uh, actually, things always get better. Sometimes it's just not in the way you expect.   thats not entirely true, some broken hearts never heal, some fights are never resolved, and some losses are never forgotton. So dont try to tell me everything gets better.    No. Things ALWAYS get better. Even if you do lose a friend or two in the process, everything happens for a reason. You'll end up happy sooner or later. hm, ive lost a friend, a love, a father, a grandfather, a sister for a reason? please explain why? Obviously I can't figure that out for you. But seriously, there is hope. There's always hope. mbs55 Posted at 1:16 pm on July 2, 2009 Cutting is never the answer. What's going in your life? How are your relationships with your family members? There is also never a reason to blame yourself. That's exactly what you don't want to do. Whenever you're thinking of cutting, try to think of all of the positive things in your life and how you have your whole life ahead of you. Things don't always have to be bad, and more often than not, your circumstances will change for the better. If you want to talk about it, feel free to PM me. hishebrewbabe Posted at 12:45 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Lucid Nightmare at 12:41 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:27 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Lucid Nightmare at 12:19 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from oskarsback at 12:12 pm on July 2, 2009 You can hang in there! Everthing gets better       shut up, some things just dont get better. There will always be a battle to deal with, we just need to learn to accept it and keep fighting.   Uh, actually, things always get better. Sometimes it's just not in the way you expect.    thats not entirely true, some broken hearts never heal, some fights are never resolved, and some losses are never forgotton. So dont try to tell me everything gets better. No. Things ALWAYS get better. Even if you do lose a friend or two in the process, everything happens for a reason. You'll end up happy sooner or later. hm, ive lost a friend, a love, a father, a grandfather, a sister for a reason? please explain why? Lucid Nightmare Posted at 12:41 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:27 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Lucid Nightmare at 12:19 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from oskarsback at 12:12 pm on July 2, 2009 You can hang in there! Everthing gets better   shut up, some things just dont get better. There will always be a battle to deal with, we just need to learn to accept it and keep fighting.    Uh, actually, things always get better. Sometimes it's just not in the way you expect. thats not entirely true, some broken hearts never heal, some fights are never resolved, and some losses are never forgotton. So dont try to tell me everything gets better. No. Things ALWAYS get better. Even if you do lose a friend or two in the process, everything happens for a reason. You'll end up happy sooner or later. hishebrewbabe Posted at 12:27 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from Lucid Nightmare at 12:19 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from oskarsback at 12:12 pm on July 2, 2009 You can hang in there! Everthing gets better    shut up, some things just dont get better. There will always be a battle to deal with, we just need to learn to accept it and keep fighting. Uh, actually, things always get better. Sometimes it's just not in the way you expect. thats not entirely true, some broken hearts never heal, some fights are never resolved, and some losses are never forgotton. So dont try to tell me everything gets better. Lucid Nightmare Posted at 12:19 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from hishebrewbabe at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from oskarsback at 12:12 pm on July 2, 2009 You can hang in there! Everthing gets better shut up, some things just dont get better. There will always be a battle to deal with, we just need to learn to accept it and keep fighting. Uh, actually, things always get better. Sometimes it's just not in the way you expect. The Last Magister Posted at 12:16 pm on July 2, 2009 Something I realized quickly is that while people do forgive and forget, it often takes time. You need to prove to them with your actions, not just for a little while, but over a long course of time that you've changed for the better. I know it sucks, and it took me two years to show people I had changed who I was, but that doesn't mean in any way that you should give up on fixing things. As people have said in this topic already, things CAN and WILL get better if you just hold on. Please don't cut yourself, no one wants you to do this. Things will get better as long as you keep trying. hishebrewbabe Posted at 12:14 pm on July 2, 2009 Quote: from oskarsback at 12:12 pm on July 2, 2009 You can hang in there! Everthing gets better shut up, some things just dont get better. There will always be a battle to deal with, we just need to learn to accept it and keep fighting. brittany101 Posted at 12:13 pm on July 2, 2009 me too dont worry sweetie i know exactly where your comming from....if you need help or want to talk...PM me Most recent 15 of 16 previous replies displayed.