Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic it all fell apart again Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Aliboo[/m] at 6:26 am on July 3, 2009[quote]I've put myself between a rock and a hard place. There was this girl and we had amazing times together and she fell really hard for me, and me for her. When she asked me out it was too soon and we got caught up in the moment. I ended up breaking up with her thinking I was doing the right thing. She came to see me a few hours later, last night, and I was given some kind of false hope that things would be okay. But then it 2am she texts me and says she's upset over her ex girlfriend (who is in the hospital) because she kissed someone else.. and i guess me breaking up with her and everything else happening made her have a breakdown. which made me have a breakdown. we're both falling apart, she was fine when she left. but now she is trying to walk out on me again i am so depressed and i want so badly to fix this but i cant make her happy, and i am not happy, i dislike myself a lot for what i did (even though it could be worse) and now im afraid of losing her again.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Aliboo Posted at 6:26 am on July 3, 2009 I've put myself between a rock and a hard place. There was this girl and we had amazing times together and she fell really hard for me, and me for her. When she asked me out it was too soon and we got caught up in the moment. I ended up breaking up with her thinking I was doing the right thing. She came to see me a few hours later, last night, and I was given some kind of false hope that things would be okay. But then it 2am she texts me and says she's upset over her ex girlfriend (who is in the hospital) because she kissed someone else.. and i guess me breaking up with her and everything else happening made her have a breakdown. which made me have a breakdown. we're both falling apart, she was fine when she left. but now she is trying to walk out on me again i am so depressed and i want so badly to fix this but i cant make her happy, and i am not happy, i dislike myself a lot for what i did (even though it could be worse) and now im afraid of losing her again.

Replies Mimic Posted at 1:37 pm on July 3, 2009 What did you break up over exactly? When you say you did something but it could have been a lot worse what are you trying to say? You went too far with her and she didn't want it or you regretted it? If you managed to talk it over once then you might be able to do the same again, but to be honest it sounds like you're both very confused right now and maybe what you both need is time to cool off and refelct. i mean she might be worked up still and she might need a few days to think. Pressing her when she's already breaking down is going to be pressure she doesn't need and if you're saying you've already pushed things too far once then maybe that's the last thing you should think about doing. Giving her space might be the best way to show her you care. Give her some breathing room for a couple of days. and take time to think yourself as well and just calm down and then talk to her about things. You can both make a better decision when your nerves maybe aren't so frayed and when you've had a chance to think about how exactly you each feel about the different things going on. Communication is important in a relationship, but it sounds like it's not certain whether you're actually in a relationship right now, so breathing space is probably the best option or else she will feel pressured. Just give her - and you - some time. That might sound hard, but it could be well worth it in the end if it means she comes back of her own free will. GlassHearts Posted at 7:05 am on July 3, 2009 Quote: from ily13107 at 6:29 am on July 3, 2009 Tell her how you feel, and just straight up talk to her. I think that's the best way to fix things. I agree ily13107 Posted at 6:29 am on July 3, 2009 Tell her how you feel, and just straight up talk to her. I think that's the best way to fix things. All 3 previous replies displayed.