Quoting Post Topic ok,.. so how do i handle this one? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 8:43 pm on June 15, 2009[quote]there's this guy i've been seeing and i like him but i don't LIKE him.. you know. i think it would be best if we were just friends.. but i don't want to be in a relationship with him. i was trying to tell him how i feel and that it's not working out.. and he got all depressed. he started crying and begging me not to leave him. said he'd kill himself if he had to live without me. which seems very selfish to me... because i wouldn't be able to live with myself if he did anything like that. i feel like he's using my emotions against me.. i don't know what to do...[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:43 pm on June 15, 2009 there's this guy i've been seeing and i like him but i don't LIKE him.. you know. i think it would be best if we were just friends.. but i don't want to be in a relationship with him. i was trying to tell him how i feel and that it's not working out.. and he got all depressed. he started crying and begging me not to leave him. said he'd kill himself if he had to live without me. which seems very selfish to me... because i wouldn't be able to live with myself if he did anything like that. i feel like he's using my emotions against me.. i don't know what to do...

Replies Anonymous Posted at 3:22 pm on June 16, 2009 i want to call him and tell him what a selfish dick he's being to use my emotions and my caring nature to manipulate me and trap me in a situation i don't want to be in.. but his manipulation is working, because if he does something stupid.. i'll live the rest of my life with this incredible guilt hanging over me.. it's emotional blackmail.. and it's so horrible of him to do this to me. i'm so mad about it.. but i just feel stuck.. speakslowlove Posted at 8:50 pm on June 15, 2009 Seriously. I've throught something like that before.. Get out while you can.. kelley187 Posted at 8:47 pm on June 15, 2009 ive been in that situation. dump him. get out of it NOW. thats a bad situation and not the kind of person u wanna be with. tell him u'll stay real good friends with him All 3 previous replies displayed.