Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic out of my life Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]HeartMittens38[/m] at 10:29 pm on July 2, 2006[quote]I have been slowly realizing that my best friend from high school is not like me at all anymore.  Well, more like I am now seeing her for what she is.  And that is just an uniteresting, dumb bitch.  Really, shes cold and unfriendly.  None of my family likes her.  I am only friends with her because we have really close mutual friends.  I dont like being around her but I like being around them...and shes always with them too.  My question is: what do I do?  I need to shake her but I am not just leaving all my friends because of her.  I have other groups of friends, thankfully, but these people are my closest high school friends.  Ugh.  [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post HeartMittens38 Posted at 10:29 pm on July 2, 2006 I have been slowly realizing that my best friend from high school is not like me at all anymore.  Well, more like I am now seeing her for what she is.  And that is just an uniteresting, dumb bitch.  Really, shes cold and unfriendly.  None of my family likes her.  I am only friends with her because we have really close mutual friends.  I dont like being around her but I like being around them...and shes always with them too.  My question is: what do I do?  I need to shake her but I am not just leaving all my friends because of her.  I have other groups of friends, thankfully, but these people are my closest high school friends.  Ugh.

Replies Stupid lad Posted at 2:03 am on July 19, 2006 u r right dear...u can`t leave ur other best friends just b`coz of her... remember tht if she is not reciprocating 2 ur feelings..dnt panic and dnt get upset coz she is leaving a gud buddy (and that`s u) so dear move ahead coz life is too short 2 be sad.cheers up Tenchi Posted at 2:17 pm on July 3, 2006 well, we all have people we don't like.  but maybe your judging too harshly.  I hang around some folks I prefer not to.  but I do because I believe that they compliment my personality in some sense.(not in a relationship way, but human).  I just don't want to say no to being a friend to someone, unless they have a serious problem that affects my health. but if it's bothering you that much, you can tell her how you feel, that your not that comfortable around her.  but I wouldn't, since she's friends with your friends.  I'd just let things be.  it's better that way. crazychris Posted at 4:24 am on July 3, 2006 Since high school, I can't stand most of my "friends" anymore.  I can't believe I was ever friends with some of them.  Sometimes I'll be back in my old town and I'll be hanging around my old friends and there will be this one "frenemy" that is around and we just smile and don't say much to each other.  It's always kind of awkward when we are around each other, but we have the same friends sooo.. nothing I can do about it really.  A little advice.. don't talk about your friend that you don't like anymore to your other mutual friends because that friend being talked about will probably find out and that could make not just the friend being talked about not like you, but also others simply because you were talking about someone they like. goodman Posted at 3:10 am on July 3, 2006 You need not tell in words. Your body language should do that slowly over a period. ductcha Posted at 10:44 pm on July 2, 2006 well, i recomend that you try ignoring her and telling her how it is you feel, also a good bit of humor helps even the most horrible of personalities reveal there better parts. cyberpunk Posted at 10:34 pm on July 2, 2006 Tell her you dont like her. It will make it very uncomfortable for her to be near you afterwards. Wrestle691 Posted at 10:30 pm on July 2, 2006 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations All 7 previous replies displayed.