Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Im Invisable im so ugly Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]sophiethelibrarian[/m] at 7:50 am on Aug. 28, 2006[quote]Aw listen. Sometimes we all feel like that. As if everyone stares at you, or that you feel ugly compared to someone else. But you know, when you talk to the people that you think are like models, THEY hate themselves and think they're ugly and wish they were different. My point? Is that no matter what you look like, most people are never happy or wish something was different. So, you need to stop feeling so bad, and realise that someone's true beauty is not on the outside but on the inside. We all get the odd stare, or laugh or people saying hurtful comments to make themselves feel better - but you can rise above it. There is no-one else on this planet exactly like you - you're unique - so smile, and be brave and show the world how nice you are x[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Angeleyes82 Posted at 7:11 am on Aug. 28, 2006  I feel like  no one wants me around no one has ever said ur pretty or wanted to talk to me i feel like i never want to go out again i tried to just be me for a while but it didnt work no one noticed me im just an invisable ugly duclkling that no one gives a crap about.      there is no one for me in the world no one who even wants my friendship its ok i can just live in my room with my dvds and tv and hide away from everyone. wont have to see the people who hurt me. im locking myself away from the world since the world doesnt want me

Replies thecritiquevirtuoso Posted at 2:40 pm on Feb. 15, 2007 omg, I have the same problem I m soo fucking hideous also. the best you can probably do girl is take it all in and explode on other people and curse at other people for your problems. crying and cutting also works too. I am fat, hairy (I actually have a disgusting mustache and I have to shave my side burns all the way down to my jaw, and I'm a woman) my hair feels and looks like straw, I am disgustingly dark, my skin complexion is hideous, I have a major acne problem on my face, chest, and back, and I am also very short. lilac Posted at 3:42 pm on Aug. 29, 2006 But isn't looks a part of it? I don't like my breasts cause there only an A cup and I'm a 21 year old woman. My b/f claims he likes them, but he hasn't fully seen them. They only been outa my shirt. There so small his hands go over them. And I feel bad that he can't fo**le me like he's suppose to so that I could feel good. A cups suck. Why couldn't I be a B cup. Why couldn't I have a nice body like my younger sister??? I ask myself that all the time. Why'd it have to be me? I'm sooooooooo scared when my b/f comes over he's gonna be eyeing my sister. When I say eyeing I don't mean that in a bad way. I know he admires her body. Ya. My own b/f. Shouldn't he just like her as like a friend? Not even a friend but just like her as not like how he likes me? Plus my hair's not in order. I have to wash it out so many times before I can get it right. I have to get  the perm out, before I could straighten it and it would look nice like my sisters. So my b/f has my sister's hair to look at and her boobs. I wish he'd only like me. I jus wanted to share this with you guys. And Angeleyes82, Your not the only one that isn't feeling happy here. I'm not either and my situation is probably worse than your's. dreamweaver Posted at 11:15 pm on Aug. 28, 2006 What you need to do is to discover yourself and what gives you confidence.  A girl who has a lot of confidence shows more to a guy than beauty.  If you're down on yourself and feel hopeless, you will be.  But if you are confident about yourself and show it, people will take notice of that.  Looks really has nothing to do with it.  I mean, a girl can be gorgeous and all but if she isn't very confident, she will lose guys quickly. morrisonsMYmuse Posted at 11:10 pm on Aug. 28, 2006 it's not all about what you look like. it's about attitude. i'm not saying you are ugly... i'm just saying that if you are a nice person, you'll have friends. if you are a happy person, or if you're fun to be with. trust me, it took me forever to learn that. becuase i used to be.... really pretty. but i gained weight and thought... still think... that i'm the ugliest person in the world. but my friends still love me. i still got a boyfriend who later proposed to me and you can bet your ass that it's not because of what i look like. pretty is a state of mind. i have to tell myself this all the time. if you spend all your time focusing on what you look like, you'll come off a superficial. and you're not that. if you're a good person, if you're nice, and you smile alot... people will notice that. because concitedness goes the other way too... if all you focus on is how bad you think you look, then that's what other people will focus on as well. i learned that the hard way. there can be someone who is flawless when it comes to looks, but if that person is nasty or mean, that's what people notice. they say "she's pretty, but she's a pain in the ass" pretty comes from the inside before people even start to notice it on the outside! lovefaith Posted at 9:31 am on Aug. 28, 2006 Dont worry about it, the way you see yourself is harsh everyone has something they dont like about themselves everyone feels concious, dont jusdge yourself. Not being noticed is not neccassarily your fault sometimes cliques are cruel like that there seems no way of getting in one, when your on your own they can even pretned you arent there. But you have to remember, this will sound strange although a Doctor said it, you are the way you are for someone else, the things you have your talents and stuff, so dont hide away grace the world with your presence. sophiethelibrarian Posted at 7:50 am on Aug. 28, 2006 Aw listen. Sometimes we all feel like that. As if everyone stares at you, or that you feel ugly compared to someone else. But you know, when you talk to the people that you think are like models, THEY hate themselves and think they're ugly and wish they were different. My point? Is that no matter what you look like, most people are never happy or wish something was different. So, you need to stop feeling so bad, and realise that someone's true beauty is not on the outside but on the inside. We all get the odd stare, or laugh or people saying hurtful comments to make themselves feel better - but you can rise above it. There is no-one else on this planet exactly like you - you're unique - so smile, and be brave and show the world how nice you are x purpleminkey69 Posted at 7:47 am on Aug. 28, 2006 everyone hates u because u hate urself and u have low self confidence. how can u expect anyone to like u if u lock urself away from the world. u need a sefl confidence boost :) im sure there are alot of people that would like to get to know u but are either put off by ur attitude or feel u dont like them. if u werent anti-social u';d see how quickly everyone started hanging around u ;) goodforyou Posted at 7:46 am on Aug. 28, 2006 if you just want to give up then thats fine, but if you dont then go out there  fighting! tell the world to take you for who you are you arent going to change for it and damn people wholaugh! pinkicecubes Posted at 7:34 am on Aug. 28, 2006 If you feel ugly on the outside you're going to turn ugly inside. Beauty comes from inside not just from what you look like.   Personality is attractive too, even ugly people shine if they feel good on the inside and you start to overlook what they look like. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start doing things to make you feel better about yourself, experiment with make up and your hair and clothes. Your probably not even making an effort because you feel so bad about yourself. Locking yourself in your room really wont help. Your not invisible either, unfortunately no one has been blessed with that ability yet. Illyas Posted at 7:33 am on Aug. 28, 2006 Angeleyes...alot of girls think I'm ugly...then again alot of girls find me hot...weird how that works eh? I wake up everymorning feeling hideous...but I love myself...thats all that matters. Jannurst Posted at 7:32 am on Aug. 28, 2006 beauty is in the eye of the beholder there is a whole world out there full of interesting and unusual people, and one of them out there is looking for someone just like you, and when you meet maybe that will be that, youll fall in love but you have to keep hopeful, the above may happen, or something else may happen, but something will happen, unless you sit locked in your room Angeleyes82 Posted at 7:32 am on Aug. 28, 2006 i have but the just think im werid and go away from me eyewonder Posted at 7:28 am on Aug. 28, 2006 Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.  It's what's on the inside that counts, and many people will see that. Many people have a very difficult time viewing themselves as others see them... you really just have to give people the chance and opportunity to see the real you. Angeleyes82 Posted at 7:27 am on Aug. 28, 2006 yeah well ive tried all those things and here i sit alone arekeyda Posted at 7:25 am on Aug. 28, 2006 hey come on you guys!! there must be some kids out there who want to be your friends. try to be nice and happy always. whatever other people says, ignore it. you've got to have  alittle bit of self confidence. if not, other people will ignore you just like how you ignore yourselves. trust me, deep down inside, there is something nice about yourself. i've been in that kind of situation but trust me. ignore all bad things that people do to you and try to be nice to others. one day, you will be accepted by others. remember, having a friend who loves you for who you are is better than to have friends who loves your money or your face. it is hard but worth it. Most recent 15 of 21 previous replies displayed.