Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic the worst weekend i've had in ages Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Chamillitary Man[/m] at 6:39 pm on Jan. 23, 2007[quote]Yo seriously...paragraphs...please... And that kinda sucks too..[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post crabigailrose Posted at 6:38 pm on Jan. 23, 2007 Friday we had a party (and by we i mean the sigma nu, the fraternity that i hang out with) and it was a good party until my boyfriend got really trashed. he kept trying to make out iwth one of my best friends, and he tried to get hsi friend to kiss me. His friend tried but I pulled away. My friend pulled away too, though my bf did manage to get his tongue in her mouth. Then he got trashed and spent the rest of the night passed out in my lap in the bathroom, sitting up periodically to puke. Saturday night, I couldn't get ahold of my bf so I went to dinner and watched some movies with another friend, and so I had my phone on silent cuz we were watching the Matrix tilogy. my bf kept calling me, and finally i got ahold of him after the movies and i told him we needed to talk . i asked him why he made out with my friend and we got in a huge fight. He told me he was trying to make me jelous cuz a friend of ours had told me earlier that if i didn't have a bf he could see himself hooking up with me, and i must have said something flirty back (I am a total flirty, and this kid and I have been flirting like crazy since the day we met, and eh is one of my best friends) my bf decided that he thought i would cheat on him, and he said the first theing that came to his head when i wasn't answering my phone that night was i was cheating on him with "that don kid from kap sig" (aka the kid i was h anging out wtih, but i was NOT cheating on my bf) i didn't tell him that our friend had tried to kiss me cuz i was afriad he wouldn't believe me that i pulled away. finally around 4 in the morning we worked things out, I still hadn't really told him hsi friend tried to kiss me. things were good the next day, he was really sweet to me and everything was OK again.  i was so happy not to be fighting with him. last night the boys had their chapter meeting for their fraternity and they were voting on pledges. it was a long meeting and didn't go as well as my friends had hoped (one of the people who we really don't care for, and don't respect for various reasons gave one of our really good friends a no vote, and in order to be initiated the vote has to be unanimously yes. our friend is really upset because he is no longer a part of that fraternity for no real good reason) my bf and our friend went off to have a talk,and im not really sure what they said. but i know our friend must have told him something tot eh effect of he may or may not have made out wtih me friday night. so my bf asked me if anything happened between me and our friend, and i told him exactly what happened and he got really mad at me for not telling him earlier. he called me a lier, said i must be lying because otherwise i would have told him. he asked me if i had been cheating on him with anyone else and said he didn't trust me at all anymore and that i had repeatidly lied to him through our relationship (of about 6 months. and i never once lied to him or cheated on him) he dumped me and i was crying until about 4 in the moring. he hates me now and doesn't ever want to be my friend again. that was the worst weekend i've had in a long time.

Replies QisQ Posted at 9:47 pm on Jan. 30, 2007 I doubt you lost him for ever, prolly rethink what he did in a couple of days. nanayangel Posted at 9:10 pm on Jan. 27, 2007 Well, I can't really blame him coz honesty is required for a relationship to have trust... Maybe you should let things cool down first, try to talk to him after the heat of the moment is gone... Compromise, and ask him if you can start all over again... Cheesemaster4000 Posted at 6:57 am on Jan. 26, 2007 Well in my own personal opinion I think your ex-bf should be casterated with a plastic spork from kfc. because he obviously can only think with his penis. Another thing thats why booz sucks. Booz just makes a mans balls bigger and soon he will come out and say or do things that he couldnt do when he was sober simply because his better judgement was clouded by alcohol. You shouldnt have spent hours crying over a prick like that. you should have dumped his ass the night he tryed to make out with your friend. How can people sit there and watch that crap and not do anything about it? I don't get it. Also. Don't flirt so much, ALOT of women flirt so fricken much whether they have a relationship or not. And guess what? All your going to do is get another guy attracted to you and its going to cause problems. Then if your better half see's you flirting with other guys what the hell is he going to think? But hey... if you want to go ahead and use men as a personal play toy for you to constantly flirt with go ahead. I guess thats all us men are good for. lol but that doesnt matter because men, like your ex, are doing so many stupid things now days I guess we don't deserve any better huh? And just so some silly person doesnt come on here and say im stereotyping. I said "because men" not "all men". Have a wonderful and peacefull day people. Pleiades Posted at 6:50 pm on Jan. 23, 2007 I'm sorry, you bf wasn't really being fair though since he tried to kiss your friend which is worse than his friend trying to kiss you. Sounds like he is paranoid and in the long run you might end up better off without him. I'm sorry that it was such a bad weekend though. depressed dark angel Posted at 6:47 pm on Jan. 23, 2007 ouch. im really sorry. Chamillitary Man Posted at 6:39 pm on Jan. 23, 2007 Yo seriously...paragraphs...please... And that kinda sucks too.. Jetsfootball06 Posted at 6:39 pm on Jan. 23, 2007 holy shit..it must of been bad judgeing by the size of ur post All 7 previous replies displayed.