Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic he got me to do heroin Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]VirtusInternus[/m] at 10:05 pm on Dec. 23, 2007[quote]Hey people-  This is a huge story but Imma break it down. Ok Theres two great guys in my life and I love both of them so much! Ive gone out with both of them the first one Clayton. I broke up with him for Josh. Im going out with JOsh now. They are both older. Im only 15 and they are both 17. CLayton doesnt know the real reason why I broke up with him cause I know how hard he would take it knowing how much he hates Josh. So to this day he doesnt know they real reason and he wants to hook back up. Josh and I are madly in love and have a great relationship! I mean its fantastic but Clayton and Mine relationship was great too. Well, The other day Clayton proposed to me! IM ONLY 15! He said we could be engaged for a while until we were both ready for marriage. He wants me to have his babys and everything! He is telling me that I should think about it. He keeps on telling me how much he loves and cares about me and that he would do anything for me.... WHAT ABOUT JOSH! Im scared that Clayton might be the right one but Imma stay with Josh or that Josh might be the right one but Imma break up with him to go back to Clayton. Im just afraid Imma make the wrong decision and Im very scared. Ive been down and I just dont know what to do. Im so scared and I need some advise real bad! I know Im only 15 and shouldnt even be thinking about marriage but Clayton did say that we could be engaged until we are ready. PLEASE HELP ME ASAP! I need some advise and help so bad! I would be talking to my bestfriend about this but she is in North Carolina right now and I dont really have a way to get incontact with her unless she called me and I need advise and help NOW! I have actually thought about just commiting suicide so I wont have to decide on either one and I wont have to worry about making the wrong decision. I am very depressed and I have been for a long time so it would be taking away the pain and I wont have to worry about making the wrong decision. I just dont know what to do. Theres way more to my depression but thats a whole new story. I just need help deciding on what to do with two guys in my life that mean more to me than anything! They have both helped me threw alot of hard things in my life so I cant really compare there and one is the preppy good boy type and the other one is just opposite. I am so confused, lost, scared, sad, stupid, but Im feeling alittle bit of happiness cause I do love Clayton and he proposed! PLEASE HELP ME ANYONE!! I NEED SOME ADVISE! Thank you so much!  :confused: [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 9:47 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 i dont think youre ready for marriage for two reasons: 1. you're 15...youre life is going to change so much during highschool and college, dont tie yourself to a person who may not still be compatible with you in ten years. 2. if you have to debate between two guys, why would you even bring marriage into the picture? marriage is for people who know, beyond a doubt, that they are meant for each other and will be happy.  dont pick a husband based on which one you "like more."

Replies rayche Posted at 11:50 pm on May 2, 2008 I'm not sure what to say. Good luck... maybe you should take a break from both? Think things through? anabolicbrotha Posted at 6:55 pm on April 18, 2008 If being engaged to Clayton is what you wanted, you wouldn't be on here asking for help, you would have said yes right away, and wouldn't have to be thinking about it.   Besides, you're only 15, wait let me say that again in case you didn't get it - you're 15. you have absolutely no business being, or thinking about being engaged at that age.   And I agree, you shouldn't even think about killing yourself. Guys are not worth your life. If the decision becomes too much for you, then tell them both goodbye. Which, personally I think you should do anyway, because you're not being fair to either one of them at this point. If you're dating one and still have all these feelings for the other. Oh, and on another note, in your post you talk about how you're maddly inlove with this Josh guy -  No, you're not. Because if you were - you wouldn't even be thinking about leaving him for Clayton. ANyway, good luck JeremyM Posted at 7:10 am on April 18, 2008 Brutal Moonshine Posted at 10:29 pm on April 6, 2008 EmilyAnn Posted at 9:52 am on Jan. 4, 2008 i 150% agree with these guys. marriage are for people who are READY to spend their whole lives together. Tell me, can you really plicture urself in ur 40s and being with clayton? no right? i dind't think so, how long have you known clayton and josh anyways? how long have you been goign out? ur only 15, don't settle urself down like that, cuz down the road u'll regret it. I say you shouldnt' pick any of them, you dont' REALLY truly love clayton OR josh. Sorry, i think ur getting urself in deep crap adriesilva Posted at 3:33 pm on Dec. 30, 2007 I don't hate being a teen, i hate being called one....it's weird.... VirtusInternus Posted at 10:05 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 Hey people-  This is a huge story but Imma break it down. Ok Theres two great guys in my life and I love both of them so much! Ive gone out with both of them the first one Clayton. I broke up with him for Josh. Im going out with JOsh now. They are both older. Im only 15 and they are both 17. CLayton doesnt know the real reason why I broke up with him cause I know how hard he would take it knowing how much he hates Josh. So to this day he doesnt know they real reason and he wants to hook back up. Josh and I are madly in love and have a great relationship! I mean its fantastic but Clayton and Mine relationship was great too. Well, The other day Clayton proposed to me! IM ONLY 15! He said we could be engaged for a while until we were both ready for marriage. He wants me to have his babys and everything! He is telling me that I should think about it. He keeps on telling me how much he loves and cares about me and that he would do anything for me.... WHAT ABOUT JOSH! Im scared that Clayton might be the right one but Imma stay with Josh or that Josh might be the right one but Imma break up with him to go back to Clayton. Im just afraid Imma make the wrong decision and Im very scared. Ive been down and I just dont know what to do. Im so scared and I need some advise real bad! I know Im only 15 and shouldnt even be thinking about marriage but Clayton did say that we could be engaged until we are ready. PLEASE HELP ME ASAP! I need some advise and help so bad! I would be talking to my bestfriend about this but she is in North Carolina right now and I dont really have a way to get incontact with her unless she called me and I need advise and help NOW! I have actually thought about just commiting suicide so I wont have to decide on either one and I wont have to worry about making the wrong decision. I am very depressed and I have been for a long time so it would be taking away the pain and I wont have to worry about making the wrong decision. I just dont know what to do. Theres way more to my depression but thats a whole new story. I just need help deciding on what to do with two guys in my life that mean more to me than anything! They have both helped me threw alot of hard things in my life so I cant really compare there and one is the preppy good boy type and the other one is just opposite. I am so confused, lost, scared, sad, stupid, but Im feeling alittle bit of happiness cause I do love Clayton and he proposed! PLEASE HELP ME ANYONE!! I NEED SOME ADVISE! Thank you so much!   elementality09 Posted at 9:57 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 Well I fixed it. Now, I'm bored. greatescape Posted at 9:56 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 happy for you really...you're 15? engaged? and I suppose you think it'll work, huh? bullshit! don't think you know what's a good idea and what isn't. I believe that people can fall in love at a young age, but you can pretty much kiss any chance of marrying this guy goodbye. silverbullets Posted at 9:53 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 i like blue eyes on a guy sweetamericangrl18 Posted at 9:52 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 on a supportive note, don't kill yourself, it's not worth it, especially if it's over two guys. remember, you're only 15. don't end it now. NeverHeal Posted at 9:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 ^^That is my school pic. ^^I'm on the left. ^^I was riding on a carousaul(sp) thing. woo. Just thought i'd post some pics...other people should to...I like to see what everyone looks like :D. ~A.J~ seekingsimplicity Posted at 9:51 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 Quote: from wwlb at 9:34 pm on July 24, 2003 happy for you really...you're 15? engaged? and I suppose you think it'll work, huh? bullshit! don't think you know what's a good idea and what isn't. I believe that people can fall in love at a young age, but you can pretty much kiss any chance of marrying this guy goodbye. Well said. gotyooadicted Posted at 9:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 Are you sure you're on the left in the second picture? austin s23 Posted at 9:50 pm on Dec. 23, 2007 and charolastra, looking real gansta there.   Most recent 15 of 25 previous replies displayed.