Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic just neen femal and male opinions. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Anisela[/m] at 11:48 am on Mar. 18, 2008[quote]alright, my ex dumped me becuase some other guy kissed me before he left for iraq. now , i knew that my  ex didn't like him so i turned that dude down the whole week he was there, so i asked my ex for his permission to see the dude and he said yes but not to tell him. well i took my friend with me and everything was cool, then he asked if i could take him to popeyes and i said yes cuz his mom was going too so we still wouldn't be alone. well, then he kissed me and i pulled away and got off the truck. Now, i figured that if i told my ex, he would get upset and dump me, but if i kept it from him, he would find out and there would be absolutely no hope for me. but then i figured that if he loved me and i know i love him, then we'd be able to just blow it off and work it out.  it was meaningless and just a pop, it wasn't like he tongued me. but he still dumped me. so the question is, was it my fault? some people call me stupid for thinking it is but my ex tells me so. so is it? any opinions would greatly be appreciated. oh and sorry for it being so long.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anisela Posted at 11:48 am on Mar. 18, 2008 alright, my ex dumped me becuase some other guy kissed me before he left for iraq. now , i knew that my  ex didn't like him so i turned that dude down the whole week he was there, so i asked my ex for his permission to see the dude and he said yes but not to tell him. well i took my friend with me and everything was cool, then he asked if i could take him to popeyes and i said yes cuz his mom was going too so we still wouldn't be alone. well, then he kissed me and i pulled away and got off the truck. Now, i figured that if i told my ex, he would get upset and dump me, but if i kept it from him, he would find out and there would be absolutely no hope for me. but then i figured that if he loved me and i know i love him, then we'd be able to just blow it off and work it out.  it was meaningless and just a pop, it wasn't like he tongued me. but he still dumped me. so the question is, was it my fault? some people call me stupid for thinking it is but my ex tells me so. so is it? any opinions would greatly be appreciated. oh and sorry for it being so long.

Replies EndLess LoVe Posted at 12:00 pm on Mar. 18, 2008 You had no idea that would happen. I wouldn't blame you. skylerthomas Posted at 11:53 am on Mar. 18, 2008 no, but kissing him wasent the greates thing to do Missipop Posted at 11:52 am on Mar. 18, 2008 not really but sort off you shouldnt have kissed him but you never kissed him first so i wouldnt think so All 3 previous replies displayed.