Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Is that how it goes? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]lilac[/m] at 9:05 am on Mar. 19, 2008[quote]It seems like if you can't stick up for yourself and say how you feel and what you want, no one cares about you. No one even cares if something happends to you or could happen. If your weak and vulnerable. But if your not weak and vulnerable and can stick up for yourself, people care. They treat you better and respect you. Is that how the world goes? I'm 23 and I know I should have figured this out before. Don't know why I didn't but ya. I realize it, but it seems kind of weird. Shouldn't people stick up for you and care about you if your vulnerable, than if you can speak your own mind? Am just wondering.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post lilac Posted at 9:05 am on Mar. 19, 2008 It seems like if you can't stick up for yourself and say how you feel and what you want, no one cares about you. No one even cares if something happends to you or could happen. If your weak and vulnerable. But if your not weak and vulnerable and can stick up for yourself, people care. They treat you better and respect you. Is that how the world goes? I'm 23 and I know I should have figured this out before. Don't know why I didn't but ya. I realize it, but it seems kind of weird. Shouldn't people stick up for you and care about you if your vulnerable, than if you can speak your own mind? Am just wondering.

Replies swinggurl Posted at 9:07 am on Mar. 19, 2008 people have a different sort of respect for you if they know you will defend yourself... kind of a fear sometimes as well... thats just the way things are.