Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Question. Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]xRaggamuffinx[/m] at 6:03 pm on Mar. 25, 2008[quote]yeah. people who're loud and obnoxious are often so because they aren't secure in themselves. sometimes they feel overlooked, so they act assertive and loud.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post lilac Posted at 6:02 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 Hey! I'd like to know, can you be assertive and self concious?

Replies blahbitch78656 Posted at 12:09 pm on April 24, 2008 yes. its all how u present urself lilac Posted at 12:30 pm on April 22, 2008 Quote: from xRaggamuffinx at 5:06 am on Mar. 26, 2008 sometimes quiet people can be -more- assertive. making a point quietly and seriously is very assertive. How though? Isn't it true that quiet and sensitive people usually think negatively and often get there feelings hurt easily? They get picked on too. Whereas soemone who is not quiet and sensitive, they can assert themselves and are liked. People respect them and care for them instead of non asserters. I was reading about this. Is it true? I'm learning how to be assertive. I'm sick and tired of people trying to take advantage of me. When I think about it, it bothers me. So is any of the stuff I mentioned here true or false? xalyndx Posted at 9:15 pm on Mar. 27, 2008 its hard for me, i try to attract attention but when i get it i basically run away... Alestrial Posted at 6:14 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 You can be anything you want to be lilac Posted at 6:12 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 I see. Well I'm self concious about my body, but yet ,just learned to be assertive. torissexy Posted at 6:09 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 yes you cann miserysbusiness Posted at 6:06 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 Yes xRaggamuffinx Posted at 6:06 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 sometimes quiet people can be -more- assertive. making a point quietly and seriously is very assertive. lilac Posted at 6:05 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 Oh. But I always though if your quiet and soft spoken, your not asertive. And if your loud and talkative, your very asertive. I don't know, thats what I thought. xRaggamuffinx Posted at 6:03 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 yeah. people who're loud and obnoxious are often so because they aren't secure in themselves. sometimes they feel overlooked, so they act assertive and loud. starzee88 Posted at 6:03 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 You can. S P A M killer Posted at 6:03 pm on Mar. 25, 2008 ya. i am All 12 previous replies displayed.