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tenchi1084 Posted at 2:42 am on May 18, 2008
I told my dad's fiancee I side with wicca more than christianity.  it's nothing personal.

she decides to have a fit, and said I was contributing to the world going to hell.  she then goes on a rant to her son, saying " 'tenchi' is gay and is wiccan.  be sure to lock your door tonight." knowing full well I can hear her.

you know, I helped with this household so much, and they had no clue about my personal life.  I helped buy food, I helped with transportation.  I helped with chores, though now I tend to say "let boy wonder do it(her son, who barely does a thing to help around the house)".

that money I used to help the house, was given to me by the state to pay for things I need.  I could have bought clothing.  I could have bought a new computer.  but no.  I gave to the household that is now saying I'm a heathen.

what about me didn't show love and compassion enough to deserve this?  She even said out loud, out of context(sorta) that "JESUS DIED FOR US" just because I could hear her.

I'm thinking of just asking for my rent back and going to move in with a friend.  I'm also thinking of asking to be re-imbursed for the money I spent buying food for everyone.  

I don't deserve this.  I did all I have done for this household out of love.  to be treated like a criminal...to be honest, I never thought I'd see the day.

It's sad, now I feel I have to sleep with a weapon next to me to feel safe.

what is even worse, if I leave now, I don't think I have a guarantee of a roof over my head.  

given I'm disabled, would the state help me the day I leave to get into a shelter at least?

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tenchi1084 Posted at 3:00 am on May 18, 2008
I hope so.  I may just wait until I have class on monday, and then explain to them what is going on if the situation doesn't get better, or heaven forbid worse.
Nielso Posted at 2:59 am on May 18, 2008
Perhaps you can call one of your friends to come pick you up?
tenchi1084 Posted at 2:54 am on May 18, 2008
Quote: from Syber at 2:53 am on May 18, 2008

Sorry that you had that happen to you, and yes You had every right to defend yourself! Just please don't let people like her shape your view of Christians (Cause some of us are cool =D) lol

yeah, I mean, some of my closest friends are christians.  I know what she is doing doesn't represent the majority of christians.  she's just a quivering tastebud that can't discern between sweet and sour.

Syber Posted at 2:53 am on May 18, 2008
Sorry that you had that happen to you, and yes You had every right to defend yourself! Just please don't let people like her shape your view of Christians (Cause some of us are cool =D) lol
tenchi1084 Posted at 2:53 am on May 18, 2008
Quote: from TwitchyFish at 2:48 am on May 18, 2008

Nielso is right. It's amazing how people bring religion into everything, to the point of this. I mean, how hipocritical can this person get? She's calling you gay and stuff, just because of your beliefs? Read my sig.

no kidding.  and after all I did for her and everyone.  I've never felt so alone, even when my mother and I had a falling out and I left her...she still made sure I was okay, and made sure I had money in my pocket.  she knew I made my decision during that time of an arguement I don't want to get into now, but she didn't want me to feel like I was alone...

I'm so alone now, given I'm hundreds of miles away from my hometown, and too far away from friends(and don't even know how to get to their house or get a hold of them) to have a place to stay.  I'm almost tempted to sleep on the streets...

Nielso Posted at 2:51 am on May 18, 2008
Yeah....if you wanna get religous and talk about god and the devil then I'd say that religion is a creation of the devil because of the immense suffering it has brought.
TwitchyFish Posted at 2:48 am on May 18, 2008
Nielso is right. It's amazing how people bring religion into everything, to the point of this. I mean, how hipocritical can this person get? She's calling you gay and stuff, just because of your beliefs? Read my sig.
tenchi1084 Posted at 2:47 am on May 18, 2008
also, am I wrong in the fact that I felt the need to defend myself? she was spouting pure nonsense...and after 3 years of not saying anything, I figured since I'd be leaving soon enough anyways, I may as well set the record straight.
Nielso Posted at 2:45 am on May 18, 2008
You need to cut all your expenses to that household and start saving and then prepare to move out, check for any places you can stay.
World of threat Posted at 2:43 am on May 18, 2008
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