Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Roommate Issue Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]ZOMGimrae[/m] at 12:27 pm on Oct. 11, 2008[quote]Complain to your RA[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 12:24 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 I have early classes everyday until 7:30p...I get 4 hours of sleep every night...So pretty much throughout the week I don't get enough sleep...Everything thing I do is on a time schedule...I have a physical class that I have everyday that I have to take a shower for...The problem is that everyday my roomy has her bf over and every single day I have to ask them to leave so that I can have some privacy to get dressed so I can get to class...by the time I'm finished with classes, I'm tired and irritable and every time I go to my room I have to see his face...I think this is totally unfair...Most of the morning til night he's in my room...My roomy doesn't go to class like she's supposed to, so when she's in the room she's supposed to be gone so I can get a quick nap since I sleep 4 hours a day...Sometimes she tries to get her bf to skip class to be with her...All she does is sleep anyway...I mean she never leaves the room at all...And all they do is get in her bed and kiss and all that other shit keeping me up and disturbing me...She acts like she can't go anywhere else...I'm at my wits end with the bullshit...This has been going since school started...I know she wouldn't like it if it was the other way around because my bf don't give a fuck what he say or do and I just want to keep the peace...If it keeps happening I will blow up and I don't want to get in trouble for saying or doing something when I'm not the one at fault... What is my last resort?

Replies PrintingFreak Posted at 5:54 pm on Oct. 14, 2008 well before going to your RA, the first solution would be to solve it at its origin, have you talked to her about it, i mean she may not realize that she is affecting your necessary routines. and then you can go to your RA, if she refuses to take the matter into her hands all RAs have to answer to someone normally the A.D. or Assistant director. but most importantly try to solve the problem at the lowest level, this case being your roomate Anonymous Posted at 9:46 am on Oct. 12, 2008 thank you...i did the same thing and it got me no where...no one cared about me so now it's my time not to care...thanks RIMHfire Posted at 9:18 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Talk to your RA. Shit's gonna happen in college. In high school, I let shit slide because I didn't want to make anybody mad, but now that I'm in college, I'm not putting up with any bullshit. ZOMGimrae Posted at 12:27 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Complain to your RA White Gangster Posted at 12:25 pm on Oct. 11, 2008 Kill her... All 5 previous replies displayed.