Quoting Post Topic My roomate for next year Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]kbrooke90[/m] at 9:51 am on June 6, 2009[quote]So last year I roomed with six other girls and I became really close with this one girl and so when it came time to picking housing we both chose to live in an apartment together. But since then she has completly changed she has become obsessed with her boyfriend and she constantly blows me off all the time and is never around. I have always done stuff for her like helping her for countless hours with school work and comforting her when she was upset, this used to be a reciprocating kind of thing but now I feel like i constantly give and she constantly takes. Three weeks ago, right after we went on summer break, we where texting and I said something important to her about something difficult I have been going through and she never responded and three weeks later I still haven't heard anything from her. I want to call her but I guess I just want to see if she'll contact me first. I don't know what to do about next year now, if I move out then whats left of are friendship will be completely over and I miss what we used to have because she was my best friend. I've tried telling her numerous times how I feel but I don't want her to think I'm like clingy I just guess I want her to know that are friendship was important to me and to me if your friend says something that's important to you, you should at least respond back. My good friend Erin thinks I should just let her go b/c i have done so much for her and she is constantly burning me. What to do?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post kbrooke90 Posted at 9:51 am on June 6, 2009 So last year I roomed with six other girls and I became really close with this one girl and so when it came time to picking housing we both chose to live in an apartment together. But since then she has completly changed she has become obsessed with her boyfriend and she constantly blows me off all the time and is never around. I have always done stuff for her like helping her for countless hours with school work and comforting her when she was upset, this used to be a reciprocating kind of thing but now I feel like i constantly give and she constantly takes. Three weeks ago, right after we went on summer break, we where texting and I said something important to her about something difficult I have been going through and she never responded and three weeks later I still haven't heard anything from her. I want to call her but I guess I just want to see if she'll contact me first. I don't know what to do about next year now, if I move out then whats left of are friendship will be completely over and I miss what we used to have because she was my best friend. I've tried telling her numerous times how I feel but I don't want her to think I'm like clingy I just guess I want her to know that are friendship was important to me and to me if your friend says something that's important to you, you should at least respond back. My good friend Erin thinks I should just let her go b/c i have done so much for her and she is constantly burning me. What to do?

Replies GoodFairy13 Posted at 10:01 am on June 6, 2009 I agree with Erin. simplyflyy7 Posted at 9:54 am on June 6, 2009 i'm sorry. just think of it this way that people come into our life for a good reason and then sometimes they leave our lives for a better reason...i mean we've met the people in our lives for a reason. but when they leave we have to accept that maybe something better is to come :) All 2 previous replies displayed.