Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic My roommate is disgusting Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [mod]Seravee[/mod] at 6:20 pm on Jan. 5, 2012[quote]I'd tell him to do all three of those things, to be honest. If he's not paying rent, he doesn't have the right to be doing much of anything. I can't wait to have my own room/bathroom next year. The dorms are awful. :([/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post CityHigh Posted at 6:16 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 My male roommate brought this girl over yesterday, and I didn't care all that much because I was leaving anyway. I care a little because this is my home and I don't know her, but whatever. I'm adjusting from living on my own to having a roommate again, and having strangers over is new. I'll get over that. But today... I've been on "Emergency bed rest" for two days. Because I have a bangover and when I got to work, laaate, yesterday I wasn't there an hour before I fell asleep. Same thing happened today, so I'm on PTO until I recover from "sleep deprivation," Have I mentioned how awesome fulltime benefits can be? My plan of attack is to fight fire with fire.  Oh damn. I was home today. Sleeping. Five rolls around, he storms in with this girl and It's on. I wasn't happy to get up after only five hours of sleep. But whatever again. He didn't know, It's unusual for me to be asleep this early so I can't complain about that. What irritates me is that he has no shame. I get home around 4:30 in the afternoon most days, he gets home at 7 a.m. There's a good gap where fucking can take place. Even then, if you want privacy let me know ahead of time. I'll go some where. Rob doesn't come over until he's gone, and we leave at 6 a.m. So he never sees him. I told him when he moved in that he wouldn't have to put up with it because I have a ghost boyfriend. He's quiet and stealthy.   And he hasn't paid rent yet, so I kind of feel like... Eugh you haven't paid for the right to fuck in my house yet, so... Don't. When I was living with my friend raquel I got hotel rooms. She has three kids under four, so I never brought anyone by. No one, not even friends. That's just an unspoken rule. She never, ever had to ask.   I really, honestly do not mind sex in my apartment. Just have some respect, k? I mean, Rob can come over early and I can force him to listen to "........*cricket*.... "  Ninja Sex. I hope that becomes a new Katy Perry song. I cleaned my carpets for two hours to avoid listening to it. So I don't know if I should tell him to not do it while I'm home, pay rent and take one of the three shower curtains down? I miss living alone. I miss being.pantsless.

Replies Zekes Posted at 7:31 pm on Jan. 9, 2012 Things will be a lot way better if you'll laid him all the rules that you want in your house. So he'll know he's limitation or the things that should be done. barnabas Posted at 7:27 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 Quote: from CityHigh at 10:25 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 Quote: from cariebear at 7:00 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 when is he going to pay you? thats wack. By the 16th. That's when I normally pay rent. is he paying you and then you are paying them? or are you both just turning in money? if he is paying you, I have found its best to make sure that you get their part a few days before the rent is actually due, to account for any oversight etc. so if you pay rent by the 16th, make sure he pays you by the 13th or something like that. CityHigh Posted at 7:25 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 Quote: from cariebear at 7:00 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 when is he going to pay you? thats wack. By the 16th. That's when I normally pay rent. barnabas Posted at 7:00 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 when is he going to pay you? thats wack. CityHigh Posted at 6:25 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 Quote: from Shibs at 6:20 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 I'd tell him to do all three of those things, to be honest. If he's not paying rent, he doesn't have the right to be doing much of anything. I can't wait to have my own room/bathroom next year. The dorms are awful. :( It's pretty amazing, I'm not going to lie. I love having my own apartment. He's probably not going to last long. He slammed my dogs paw in his kennel and didn't apologize for hurting him, and screams at him. I'll give it through the end of this month and if things don't improve give him his 30 days thedarkknightrises Posted at 6:20 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 if its bothering you then let him know. things like that can build up an become a very unhealthy stressful thing. Seravee Posted at 6:20 pm on Jan. 5, 2012 I'd tell him to do all three of those things, to be honest. If he's not paying rent, he doesn't have the right to be doing much of anything. I can't wait to have my own room/bathroom next year. The dorms are awful. :( All 7 previous replies displayed.