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Topic Is it weird to IM a hot girl I've never met, online
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Anonymous Posted at 12:22 pm on July 23, 2008
This is the first time I've talked to someone on AIM that I don't know in real life, so that's why I'm asking because I already feel really weird haha.

Anyways, I was on some college admission forums for med school and this girl gave out her sn. She had a few pics in her profile and she is hott.

Anyways, I IM'd her to ask her about applying to med school and stuff. We started talking and she got curious and asked me what I look like. Well, I sent her my facebook link and after that she got really flirty for the rest of our convo.

3 Days later, she signs onto aim. I don't know if I should IM her just to talk for fun? We havent talked since then and I feel kinda weird if I were to IM her out of nowhere.

Would she think I'm weird if I did? What do you all think?

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JeremyM Posted at 6:34 am on July 24, 2008
Quote: from fouad at 3:23 pm on July 23, 2008

nah im her its no big deal i always do it with random girls

Smooth.

To the OP: Just IM her, be like "Hey what's up?"

Depending on the response you get, continue or bail.

somelikeitred Posted at 4:07 am on July 24, 2008
Eh. It's better to just try and meet up in person....IRL stuff is way better than some AIM convo.
Evolutionism Posted at 8:28 pm on July 23, 2008
Quote: from aka anton at 12:23 pm on July 23, 2008

nope, youre over thinking it like most of us guys do

Yup, you're over-thinking it.

Zdrav Posted at 7:23 pm on July 23, 2008
Sounds weird. One time, a girl asked if she could Facebook friend me because she found me interesting at a discussion forum. Occasionally, she comments on my photos and leaves wall messages. At first, it was flattering, but now, it's a little creepy.

What, you can't chat up hot girls in real life? She's going to think that you're obsessive and/or gutless for being an online pick-up artist.

maribabyy Posted at 7:21 pm on July 23, 2008
i dont think it would be weird..do it! :]
brook Posted at 12:31 pm on July 23, 2008
talk to her
hateitandloveit Posted at 12:25 pm on July 23, 2008
just do it
Queen Victoria II Posted at 12:25 pm on July 23, 2008
Just IM her.  It won't hurt unless you are an Internet predator.
melodramatic Posted at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008
No big deal. Just don't say anything nasty or offer to meet up with her. Haha.
k1Lka Posted at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008
,aybe she wantd yur cock n balls, who knows
butterflyboy Posted at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008
go for it and talk to her
igotaquestion Posted at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008
IM her it sould be fun
morrisonsMYmuse Posted at 12:24 pm on July 23, 2008
lol...
just say hi. it's not wierd!
PotPom Posted at 12:23 pm on July 23, 2008
she probly will. but thats not reason to not do it. 99% of the time you will fail but its that1% that will make it worth it. good luck.
aka anton Posted at 12:23 pm on July 23, 2008
nope, youre over thinking it like most of us guys do
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