Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic not getting laid in college? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]AlexG2009[/m] at 5:18 am on Aug. 18, 2008[quote]im having trouble not having sex with the sluts there is just so many of them! :cool: [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 11:56 am on Aug. 15, 2008 i dunno, my first year of college i didnt get with many girls and i went to parties and stuff... everyone says it is so easy to get laid but well... i didnt find it easy because it didnt happen haha does anyone have any insight on to why? maybe i didnt try hard enough? or maybe its not so easy? i dont want to just get with sluts all the time so maybe thats why, but still, im having trouble finding a girl to get with :/

Replies Sins and Demons Posted at 4:45 am on Aug. 20, 2008 College is only easy to get laid cuz well theres just alot more girls than your high school and you can see them at any point, so that increases the odds but only for those that are already likely to have sex. What you really wanna do is find that mature person thats probably a year or two older and date them, college is the best time for that because you can find a plethra of people who are into the same thing as you opposed to when your out in the work force and you may not find too many people. TigressaLynnMae Posted at 6:12 pm on Aug. 18, 2008 Here's a newsflash: College isn't about laid. Very much true. AlexG2009 Posted at 5:18 am on Aug. 18, 2008 im having trouble not having sex with the sluts there is just so many of them! GdFtherOFCOWS Posted at 8:56 pm on Aug. 17, 2008 Quote: from Minnick at 1:57 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 Here's a newsflash: College isn't about laid. "If you want to get laid, go to college. If you want an education, go to the library." -Frank Zappa mellx Posted at 12:40 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 Just because they're drunk at parties doesn't make them a slut. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Chose one. Not getting laid or getting laid by someone who puts out easier, but it doesn't mean she's easy. novak Posted at 12:12 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 umm, get drunk and hit on girls. it isnt hard to get laid period. sometimes if your begging though you cant be a chooser! just have faith in yourself man. if you dont want to have sex with sluts, then try having a relationship that means something JennyColada Posted at 12:08 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 Quote: from Themakingofagod at 12:03 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 You said it yourself, you're a girl, finding sex is about as hard as finding rednecks in a trailer park. Just because I myself am a girl doesn't stop me from talking to many of my male friends about sex. I see where they go wrong and I see where many females go wrong. I may be able to get sex easily, but that doesn't stop me from understanding what can help others who aren't as fortunate. Still, the problem isn't him getting sex, the problem is he's aiming for the girls that have respect for themselves and are actually quality girls, yet he's wanting just sex from them no strings attached Perhaps I read wrong, but it didn't sound like that to me at all. He wants sex, yes, but he didn't say that's ALL he wants. Anonymous Posted at 12:06 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations Favole Posted at 12:06 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 you don't always get laid in college Fouad Posted at 12:04 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 Quote: from Anonymous at 10:00 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 i think hes talking about just the pre conceived notion that its easy to get some in college.   i dont think this is true, and you guys debunked it hahahah ure replying to urself hint: we can know from the () around ur anon. XD Silenced Posted at 12:04 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 just sounds like you aren't trying, you gotta come onto THEM Hggh7 Posted at 12:03 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 I'm not gettin laid in HS and you don't see me complaining. Themakingofagod Posted at 12:03 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 Quote: from JennyColada at 3:00 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 I think that getting sex is easIER than it is in other places in life, but that's not to say that it's easy. I actually find finding sex after college to be easier than in college, but that could also be due to me being a girl. If you find a girl at a party, chances are she's a bit slutty, and since you aren't looking for sluts, looking for drunk girls at parties probably isn't a good idea either. Are you interested in being in a relationship, or is that too much commitment right now? I feel like a lot of reason why people may be lacking in sexual areas in their life is, for one reason, because they are not confident in speaking about their desires. So many people want to take the back seat and expect someone else to make the first, second, and third move, or to just run up to them and tear off their clothes. Life doesn't work like that, nor does sex. Sometimes you have to be willing to move in for the kiss, or to tell someone that you find them sexy. Putting yourself up for rejection is a hard thing for many people, and perhaps that is what is holding you back? Fear of rejection? You didn't much explain what you did or didn't do at all, so you make it quite impossible for anyone to give an idea on if what you did or didn't do wasn't enough. You said it yourself, you're a girl, finding sex is about as hard as finding rednecks in a trailer park. Still, the problem isn't him getting sex, the problem is he's aiming for the girls that have respect for themselves and are actually quality girls, yet he's wanting just sex from them no strings attached, it just doesn't work that way.  If you want just sex, get a slut.  It's like shopping for a car that has great gas mileage but you're only going for trucks or SUV's.  Sure, you could find it once in a while, but you're searching the wrong market. Anonymous Posted at 12:00 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 i think hes talking about just the pre conceived notion that its easy to get some in college. i dont think this is true, and you guys debunked it JennyColada Posted at 12:00 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 I think that getting sex is easIER than it is in other places in life, but that's not to say that it's easy. I actually find finding sex after college to be easier than in college, but that could also be due to me being a girl. If you find a girl at a party, chances are she's a bit slutty, and since you aren't looking for sluts, looking for drunk girls at parties probably isn't a good idea either. Are you interested in being in a relationship, or is that too much commitment right now? I feel like a lot of reason why people may be lacking in sexual areas in their life is, for one reason, because they are not confident in speaking about their desires. So many people want to take the back seat and expect someone else to make the first, second, and third move, or to just run up to them and tear off their clothes. Life doesn't work like that, nor does sex. Sometimes you have to be willing to move in for the kiss, or to tell someone that you find them sexy. Putting yourself up for rejection is a hard thing for many people, and perhaps that is what is holding you back? Fear of rejection? You didn't much explain what you did or didn't do at all, so you make it quite impossible for anyone to give an idea on if what you did or didn't do wasn't enough. Most recent 15 of 19 previous replies displayed.