Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic read pls Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]rex reed[/m] at 12:09 pm on Aug. 15, 2008[quote]they dont work[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 12:05 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 Has anyone ever been in a long distance relationship? If so how could i know he is for real, and want me for real? How would i know he loves me when he does? Because im in one now, quite frankly idk if he is serious. When we talk we only speak of how much he loves and misses me. When i try to start up a convosation he doesnt speak. When asked why, he's either tired or dont know what to say. I find it odd. When i ask if he is sure he wants this, he says yes, im his life etc, and he's more open in person. But yet why not talk? So idk if he truly into me. Any advice? On ways to know

Replies QisQ Posted at 7:44 pm on Aug. 16, 2008 They can work, but lots fail. Depends how serious you guys are and if you control temptation and like a million other things. My roomate is going on 3 yrs, and every year his GF is a few states away. So it can work. TigressaLynnMae Posted at 8:48 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 You just know. You put Faith and Trust into it. I dated my ex girlfriend, online, for almost a year. I loved her, and still do. But we weren't each's soulmates. they really dont work Then explain the success of eharmony and chemistry.com. Love knows no boundaries, nor distance. emdude07 Posted at 8:19 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 im in one, and its not too good. they really dont work Satine Posted at 12:15 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 I started my relationship on a long-distance basis and it blossomed into the most amazing partnrship that has lasted 8 years! The separation makes each person very potent to the other. Although we get along really well and always have done, on the phone we often seemed to both be more shy. Do you have any plans to live closer together in future? That should make things easier, at least having such a plan. rex reed Posted at 12:09 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 they dont work Tavis Posted at 12:09 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 I've been in one before, and it was basically that. He's probably for real for the most part, but I can say that in my experience, the love doesn't last very long. Mine lasted 3 months, then everything fell apart. But don't give up, try and find a way to meet him some time, always talk to him, he might just be busy or distracted. brunettechic Posted at 12:08 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 Yes. And they suck. It's hard to be away from someone you care about all the time. Fouad Posted at 12:07 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 PM ME IM LIVING IN ONE LOL AmazingRed Posted at 12:06 pm on Aug. 15, 2008 I haven't and never will. They are a waste of time. You're so much better off finding someone who lives close by. All 9 previous replies displayed.