Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Boyfriend problems Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]garner[/m] at 8:14 am on Aug. 25, 2008[quote]Go slowly, and yes, always keep in mind that her child(ren) are the priority. However, do NOT play it up and act like you're fine with the kids if you really don't feel that way. Always be honest with her, and yourself. Another thing to keep in mind, the child(ren)'s father - is he around still. Some men can be mature about the mom dating, others can be very obnoxious. One step at a time, try talking to her and seeing what she feels at this point. Good luck! :)[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:19 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 Me and my boyfriend have been dating 5 months. I believe the first couple of weeks or so, he would care for me like a couple should. I became more happier than I ever was. Then, eventually, he paid more attention to his armor than me, whenever I go to his house. Well, that problem became solved. He told me that everytime I come over he spent time with me and he has. The real problem is that I'm starting feel emo. I feel that I'm not hapy because of what he does. I acting like a complaining 5 year old child to get what I want. He only calls me at night like around 10ish or so. And, when I call him, he's usually busy. Oh, what do I do? And breaking up with him is not an option. I love him too much to do that.

Replies garner Posted at 8:14 am on Aug. 25, 2008 Go slowly, and yes, always keep in mind that her child(ren) are the priority. However, do NOT play it up and act like you're fine with the kids if you really don't feel that way. Always be honest with her, and yourself. Another thing to keep in mind, the child(ren)'s father - is he around still. Some men can be mature about the mom dating, others can be very obnoxious. One step at a time, try talking to her and seeing what she feels at this point. Good luck! :) mcodeath Posted at 3:23 am on Aug. 22, 2008 Quote: from RIMHfire at 10:22 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 I don't get what the problem is. Same here, that was almost impossible to read. FiercexMelon Posted at 8:22 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 Armor vs vagina? RIMHfire Posted at 8:22 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 I don't get what the problem is. seekingsimplicity Posted at 8:21 pm on Aug. 21, 2008 okay, i wont tell you that YOU SHOULD DUMP HIM, but what i will say is that whne a guy feels less interested in a relationship, he tends to use his hobbies as an excuse and a distraction. All 5 previous replies displayed.