Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic she's mean Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Trash[/m] at 2:32 pm on Aug. 23, 2008[quote]Don't be in a relationship with someone who's just like all ehh and ahh. live your life as a humin instead[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post wingedmisery Posted at 2:30 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 I confronted my girlfriend about always being mean to me and she said that she knows she is mean and that it isn't good. I told her it isn't fair because I treat her really well and she acknowledged that I do. I don't know what to do about it. I have been in several abusive relationships and I don't want this to be another, but I love her very much..

Replies nik1 Posted at 8:50 am on Aug. 24, 2008 A relationship should be 50/50.  When there is an imbalance watch out.  She is  abusive, you know and she knows it.  You have told her and she continues.  It seems to me that she is intentionally disrespectful and the only way you can regain your respect in the relationship is to give her an ultimatum....stop it and regardless how much you love her you have no choice except to leave.  Start at once holding your hand up and waving it when she gets mean and tell her to stop. If you don't you cannot bitch about her being mean.  It's a vision into the future and if you want to be miserable hang around.  A tiger never loses its stripes. xmikeox Posted at 2:50 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 the only advice I can really give ya man is that everything happens for a reason agerask Posted at 2:40 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 dump her. you dont deserve to be treated badly. find a girl who will appreciate your niceties La Motta Posted at 2:38 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Pimp slap her!!! wingedmisery Posted at 2:37 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Quote: from Rippzter at 2:36 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Stand up and be a man I'm a woman K r e s c e n d o Posted at 2:37 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations Rippzter Posted at 2:36 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Stand up and be a man Doggeedawg Posted at 2:34 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations HuffleHaire Posted at 2:33 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Give her an ultimatum. You deserve to be treated well. Kie Posted at 2:33 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Post from this position was omitted due to content violations HideOrSeek Posted at 2:33 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Maybe she's going through a lot. speak. Trash Posted at 2:32 pm on Aug. 23, 2008 Don't be in a relationship with someone who's just like all ehh and ahh. live your life as a humin instead All 12 previous replies displayed.