Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic I know, everyone's tired of topics like this.... Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Aqueous[/m] at 11:45 pm on Aug. 25, 2008[quote]But...there's this guy. It's pretty complicated with him. Long story short, I liked him, he found out, it got awkward for a while. We became friends again, and I guess I never really got over him the first time..and I fell for him..again, harder this time. We've become really good friends..we talk a lot...but I can't decide if its worth sacrificing the friendship for a chance at something more. Recently I decided that I was just going to force myself to get over it, and move on. That clearly was unsuccessful. I wrote a letter to him..but couldn't send it. It was like as soon as I decided this, everything turned around. We've been talking every day, for LONG periods of time, and I've had four people in the last three days tell me that they think he likes me and that we should hook up. So now my issue is, what do I do? What would you do in my situation? :confused: [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Aqueous Posted at 11:45 pm on Aug. 25, 2008 But...there's this guy. It's pretty complicated with him. Long story short, I liked him, he found out, it got awkward for a while. We became friends again, and I guess I never really got over him the first time..and I fell for him..again, harder this time. We've become really good friends..we talk a lot...but I can't decide if its worth sacrificing the friendship for a chance at something more. Recently I decided that I was just going to force myself to get over it, and move on. That clearly was unsuccessful. I wrote a letter to him..but couldn't send it. It was like as soon as I decided this, everything turned around. We've been talking every day, for LONG periods of time, and I've had four people in the last three days tell me that they think he likes me and that we should hook up. So now my issue is, what do I do? What would you do in my situation?

Replies Torpid Kitten Posted at 12:20 am on Aug. 26, 2008 I still say that you tell him how you feel, letter or not. He needs to know. kleigh Posted at 11:56 pm on Aug. 25, 2008 maybe bring up the fact that you've been hearing several people say  that he likes you and find out if there's any truth to it? hithere Posted at 11:50 pm on Aug. 25, 2008 i personally would talk to him again, pour it all out and stuff. but i personally also don't care about friends. which is probably different than you. what i always want to tell people is: it's gonna suck having to keep your feelings to yourself and see him everyday, being reminded of what you could have. and it's gonna suck if you don't keep your feelings to yourself and it ends up ruining your friendship. which sucks worse? All 3 previous replies displayed.