Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Question for The boysss Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]Cyanotype[/m] at 12:29 pm on Aug. 28, 2008[quote]Quote: from [m]LightThisCity[/m] at 3:28 pm on Aug. 28, 2008[quote]The girl.[/quote] This.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Rebeccahh Posted at 12:27 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 do you prefer it if the girl makes the first move or do you like to do it yourself??

Replies arwen rashka Posted at 12:26 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 I'm a girl, and I like the chase. I don't mind a guy to make the first move, but if he continues to be the only one making the moves, then I feel totally taken advantage of. And I hate it, and often won't like the guy. Zdrav Posted at 6:31 am on Aug. 30, 2008 Me, unless I really like the girl. Sometimes, if the girl makes the first move and I totally don't expect it, I keep wondering if I'm only going out with her because she likes me and nothing else. But if it's my initiative, then I'm completely certain that I'm into her. californiaboy Posted at 10:45 pm on Aug. 29, 2008 Its every guys dream that the HOT girl comes up to him and makes the first move, but lets me honest that hardly ever happens. So in reality, it would be great if I make the first move for the girl to give us some positive feedback. If you're not interested let us know, "I have to get back to my friends." This is an obvious, not interested, and most guys will take no offense. However, if you're interested just make a small comment like "I like your hair/t-shirt. If you REALLY want to impress a guy touch him on the arm. Touching someone (on the arm, or on the leg if you are sitting down) is a clear signal that you are interested. Nothing too forward obviously, but when a girl touches me, I KNOW that I'm gonna score. Most guys (that aren't ridiculously shy) are willing to make the first move, but aren't willing to be so persistent to make a fool of themselves. If you are interested, give him a sign so he gets the point. Chino Posted at 2:58 pm on Aug. 29, 2008 I like it when its mutual.  It's a tradition to have the guy always approach the girl, get her a drink, offer to help her with her books or whatever she's carrying, ask her phone number or offer his, go pick her up, take her to dinner, buy her stuff, send her flowers, etc.  I like it when a girl does those things too which is almost impossible but there are some cultures out there (like Asia) where a girl doing all that for her guy is completely acceptable. ibdude Posted at 4:44 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 I say the girl because you never know who likes you and when a girl makes the first move on you it makes you feel good!! daveythewavey19 Posted at 1:47 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 girl. Because if the girl does, there's no games. If the guy does, it's this whole stupid run around and it wastes time. EmmitWinchell Posted at 12:53 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 girl and I respond and do someting for her and we keep going like that. ThugAngel Posted at 12:50 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 I don't like her to make the first move, but I do like that if she shows interest. It would make me feel more confident. But also, the chase is good too. Mubizz Posted at 12:40 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 Oh yeah. Its cool coz we got mutual feelings. memorexdl Posted at 12:32 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 teh female neotreo Posted at 12:31 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 id like the girl to hint decently, but i like making the first move xykaru Posted at 12:31 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 It's like pong. Either way the ball is going to either hit you in the face or go right over your head. reev Posted at 12:31 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 the girl. ErnestoTheTrippyOne Posted at 12:31 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 The girl. I feel like I'm pushing her if I start things off. I really don't want to do that. I can wait. If she really likes me she'll come to me. If you mean sexually, I guess it's the same answer, but if she wants to do it enough she'll come to me. Scandol5Mossie Posted at 12:31 pm on Aug. 28, 2008 the girl ..duh Most recent 15 of 25 previous replies displayed.