Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Single for the Start of College? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]LightThisCity[/m] at 12:56 pm on Aug. 30, 2008[quote]Ditch him.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post arwen rashka Posted at 12:56 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 So, I'm heading to college in a few days. It's going to be my first year, and I've been dating this guy for about... a week. He's REALLY into me, he tells me every day. He thinks we'll be together for a long time. But the truth is, I don't know what I want. What I think I want is to meet new people in college and enjoy experiences and just focus on the work and indulge myself in the college life. He's a great guy. And I know this. And there's no valid reason in the relationship [like, nothing too wrong with it] to make me want to break it off... But the fact is, I just don't want to be in a relationship right now. How do I tell him that, and is this the right decision. (he's going into his final year of high school, but we only live about a 5 minute drive away from each other)

Replies erolimo Posted at 2:56 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Tell him what you tell us. Evolutionism Posted at 2:47 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Not wanting to be in a relationship is a valid reason. Micus Posted at 1:09 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Quote: from arwen rashka at 4:03 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 He's very adamant about staying together for a long time... and tells me that every day. He tells me how much he loves being with me... every day. Then maybe it will hit him a little harder. But seriously, after a week I can't see how emotionally invested you can become in a person. ehmusic Posted at 1:04 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Just tell him exactly what you just typed.  Just be sure you're really nice about it.  It shouldn't be too hard on him.  A week's a week. baby brandi 1408 Posted at 1:03 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 just tell him you don't want a relationship in college.. arwen rashka Posted at 1:03 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Quote: from Micus at 1:01 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Tell him that you think he is a cool guy, but thinking practically you just might find someone else and you want to remain available for the start of the school year. You've only been dating about a week, I don't think he'll be too crushed. He's very adamant about staying together for a long time... and tells me that every day. He tells me how much he loves being with me... every day. Micus Posted at 1:01 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Tell him that you think he is a cool guy, but thinking practically you just might find someone else and you want to remain available for the start of the school year. You've only been dating about a week, I don't think he'll be too crushed. Molfsontan Posted at 1:00 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Tell him that you simply want to be single for the start of College. Hint that you might be able to fool around with him, but no relationship. LightThisCity Posted at 12:56 pm on Aug. 30, 2008 Ditch him. All 9 previous replies displayed.