Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic should it be a secret? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]BrokenBelief[/m] at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008[quote]If one of you doesn't want it to be, then it shouldn't.  It involves both of you, and if you want to talk about it, you should.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post wingedmisery Posted at 12:22 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 My girlfriend and I broke up on friday. I am one that tends to talk to people about my problems or issues, which my ex is not and doesn't talk to anyone about anything. Well I told a few of our friends that we broke up but I'm sure she won't tell them so I told them not to tell anyone. Should or shouldn't the fact that we broke up be a secret?

Replies HuffleHaire Posted at 12:36 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 You are no longer attached to her. If talking is what will make you feel better, that's what matters. Go for it. DiscoTraxx Posted at 12:29 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 Why should it be a secret? If you broke up permanently, then what good is it to keep it all to yourself? LindaRains93 Posted at 12:29 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 i dont see why it has to be a secret, i mean yall broke up....ok? its only me Posted at 12:25 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 nope guitar freak Posted at 12:25 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 it shouldnt be a secret theres no reason for it piemaster Posted at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 Wouldn't your friends find out anyway? I think it is better that your friends know. vicky91 Posted at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 they are going to figure it out eventually mendingheart518 Posted at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 I guess it really depends on if you and her feel comfortable if people knew. I don't see the big deal on keeping it a secret though because if you 2 broke up for good then eventually it'll be found out anyways Afu Posted at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 no BrokenBelief Posted at 12:24 pm on Sep. 1, 2008 If one of you doesn't want it to be, then it shouldn't.  It involves both of you, and if you want to talk about it, you should. All 10 previous replies displayed.