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WCFInvader Posted at 8:05 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
I have one 50 minute class on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays with this girl and it is the only time I ever see her.  I send her a few comments to her through myspace and facebook.  I want to get to know her better to see if I want to ask her out but I have feelings for her it isn't love but its something.  She has 3 jobs plus school so I am just trying to figure out what I am going to do.  She works at a fair near the college (which is an hour away from my house) Saturday which is the last day that it is open.  So should I go to that and talk to her there even though I am not 100% sure what time she will be there.  Or should I do something else.  I have sent hints to her trying to show her that I want to get to know her better.  I even invited her to the movies next week some time but she has to work every day so I am not sure what to do.  It is kind of weird the fact that she works all the time because I was working all the time throughout high school. So what do you all think I should do?

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cha chi Posted at 9:45 pm on Sep. 7, 2008
If she is working too much, she is just working too much. Try chatting with her on facebook to get to know her better if she doesnt have much time besides school and work. And ask her when she works so you can go see her and tell her in person that you like her and would like to get to know her and take her out on a date. Thats all you can do, and what do you really have to lose? Its just one girl... there are lots other ones out there and life is waaaay too short.
QisQ Posted at 1:31 pm on Sep. 7, 2008
Try to grab lunch? She has to eat some time or rather. Another thing is, I would be concern at trying to persue anything w/her if she is this busy. How would it ever work?
erolimo Posted at 2:21 am on Sep. 7, 2008
She could reserve some of her time for you if she really likes you.
agerask Posted at 8:17 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
she sounds like she may be trying to give you a hint. there is a creeper in my chinese class who insists on walking with me to my next class despite the fact that i wait as long as possible after the bell or leave right after the bell or walk in a completely opposite direction from where he needs to go. my excuse for him whenever he asks me somewhere is "i can't, i'm too busy..."
MakingaDifference001 Posted at 8:10 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
I think she's ignoring you, but if you try hard enough, she'll come around.
XXeasysuicideXX Posted at 8:09 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
go to the fair and talk to her there figure out what day or what times she has free and go from there
mrlupo8 Posted at 8:08 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
sounds like she doesnt want to make room for a boyfriend

some women are so determined, they dont leave room for men. so unless you have a miracle in your pocket, i doubt you have the confidence or brains to get that girl

actually i know it because you tried to get to know her on myspace instead of in person. girl think thats lame

calvin47383 Posted at 8:08 pm on Sep. 5, 2008
keep trying, i dont think there's anything else you can do.
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