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linni pop Posted at 4:01 pm on Nov. 3, 2008
i've only ever been with one guy so far, and it was someone i truly loved. i have a new boyfriend now, and i want to sleep with him, i think. the only reason i don't want to is because i'm worried that if i have sex with him and then we break up that i will just get another boyfriend and have sex with him, thus beginning a never ending cycle of slut. which i do not want to happen. i really like this new guy, we've been together for a few weeks short of 2 months, and things are going really great. i'm just at a loss of what to do...

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Roflcakes Posted at 2:20 pm on Nov. 8, 2008
Yup that is the cycle usually, one after another.
rabbitgirl Posted at 10:53 am on Nov. 8, 2008
I should take my own advice, but "IF YOU HAVE TO ASK; DON'T".
casesensitive30 Posted at 5:33 pm on Nov. 6, 2008
it doesn't make you a slut, just make sure you like him.
child of rock n roll Posted at 8:10 am on Nov. 6, 2008
Quote: from nik1 at 8:41 am on Nov. 4, 2008

I would suggest that you keep your legs together until you are sure he feels equally as emotional about you.

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nik1 Posted at 5:41 am on Nov. 4, 2008
I would suggest that you keep your legs together until you are sure he feels equally as emotional about you.
Special Agent Orange Posted at 4:09 pm on Nov. 3, 2008
Quote: from Imessedup2 at 4:05 pm on Nov. 3, 2008

Newsflash: You're going to break up with boyfriends many times in your life, and most likely you're going to go on to have sex with the future boyfriends. If you don't want to do it, don't do it; but, your reasoning is a bit nonsensical.

true, and chances are your going to have sex with some of them.
and just because you do that doesnt make you a slut (unless of course your dating a new guy every week).

ohhithere Posted at 4:05 pm on Nov. 3, 2008
You're seriously asking us?
If you want to, and you can take proper precautions, then go for it...if you don't feel it's right, then don't. Simple as that.
Imessedup2 Posted at 4:05 pm on Nov. 3, 2008
Newsflash: You're going to break up with boyfriends many times in your life, and most likely you're going to go on to have sex with the future boyfriends. If you don't want to do it, don't do it; but, your reasoning is a bit nonsensical.
TomNsR Posted at 4:04 pm on Nov. 3, 2008
Just do it already if you want to.
babypink 1012 Posted at 4:04 pm on Nov. 3, 2008
you think?
no don't.
If you think your ready your not,
if you KNOW your ready then go ahead, wait longer.
Special Agent Orange Posted at 4:04 pm on Nov. 3, 2008
just pull your pants down and get ready for the ride of a lifetime.
Natsy Posted at 4:03 pm on Nov. 3, 2008
so in other words a month and 2 weeks?
Baron Samedi Posted at 4:02 pm on Nov. 3, 2008
Just do it.
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