Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Don't want to put him in an Awkward Spot Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]bigdutchman[/m] at 8:05 pm on Nov. 23, 2008[quote]Just go for it anyway... On the chance that he does like you back, think of what you could be wasting.[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Wolferz Posted at 7:58 pm on Nov. 23, 2008 I really hate it when people like me that I don't like back.  I always feel guilty for having to 'put them down' and it just sucls... There is a guy I like a lot and I suspect he prolly does not like me.  I wanted to see what would possibly happen, if he might consider it.  BUTTTT i feel incredibly bad to put this guy in the same awkward situation of having to put me down.  I don't want him to feel guilty/bad./weird/strange...you know? Do you hate having to tell someone you don't like them in that way???  And can you still be friends from that point on? (Ps - this guy and I are not close at all and he just got out of a relationship)

Replies QisQ Posted at 6:54 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 I say thats a weird fear to have. I mean yea, having to reject someone kinda sucks. But that shouldnt prevent you from approaching/trying. collegiate Posted at 3:31 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 I wouldn't even try only because you're not close and he just got out of a relationship, so you'll only be a rebound girl used for rebound reasons. I'm sure that'll be worse than having awkward moments. Azi Posted at 3:12 pm on Nov. 29, 2008 Everyone likes to hear that someone is attracted to them, even if he rejects you you will still have made him happy in a way for sure. timmybor Posted at 10:44 am on Nov. 26, 2008 if your not that close to him at the moment i would ask him out.  he probably suspects it anyways so get it out of the way.  if he responds as you expect dont fret there are alot of men out there. to get over teh depressing realization check out www.studyandsocre.com peace bigdutchman Posted at 8:05 pm on Nov. 23, 2008 Just go for it anyway... On the chance that he does like you back, think of what you could be wasting. whoami111 Posted at 8:00 pm on Nov. 23, 2008 I don't discriminate chesticles Posted at 8:00 pm on Nov. 23, 2008 damn same situation All 7 previous replies displayed.