Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Talk to Ex-Girlfriend of Boy I like Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]LittleMissHippie[/m] at 8:52 am on Nov. 28, 2008[quote]I'm not sure...it could all go well but it could all backfire on you[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:48 am on Nov. 28, 2008 I like this boy a lot.  And frankly, I've heard conflicting things about him,  I am just not sure what to think. I know he amd his girlfriend recently broke up last month.  I really WANT to know what her side of the story is.  I am to the point that I don't realy care anymore becase it's not like we would be friends or anything. Should I IM or or Facebook message her?  Just say "hey you dont know me, but I have liked XXX and I wanna know what kind of guy he is. Should I quit while I'm ahead?" ORR...I have a friend who is good friends with this girl...but she also gossips a lot and will prolly tell my Crush as well... What should I do?

Replies 2kewl4u2know Posted at 9:05 am on Nov. 28, 2008 Don't do it.  She's the ex so she's only going to have bad to say, especially that recently to the break up.  And you'll be giving her an opening to either harass or gossip more about you. If you aren't sure about this guy, find out for yourself, not through other people's biased opinions. thatgirlisacowboy21 Posted at 8:57 am on Nov. 28, 2008 bad idea because if he finds out he'll want to know why you didnt just ask him LucidAssassin Posted at 8:55 am on Nov. 28, 2008 id say its probably worth a shot Anonymous Posted at 8:54 am on Nov. 28, 2008 Curious:  What would the worst case scenerio be if this went bad?  Would she tell the boy?  Or like would...she find out who I am?? If you were HER, how would you respond to an email or IM like that? La Motta Posted at 8:54 am on Nov. 28, 2008 She'll slap you. JessicaChace Posted at 8:52 am on Nov. 28, 2008 you'll never know unless you try to find out LittleMissHippie Posted at 8:52 am on Nov. 28, 2008 I'm not sure...it could all go well but it could all backfire on you Chasey Posted at 8:49 am on Nov. 28, 2008 I think you should go for it. What's the worst that could happen, after all ? All 8 previous replies displayed.