Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Messaging without coming off as being a creeper? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]maggiepie[/m] at 9:25 pm on Dec. 23, 2008[quote]Usually I hate first contact to be through messages but Facebook is my only way to talk to Thomas, this beautiful man from my 2d design class. I was interested in him from day one but a friend had a thing for him at the time so I kept my distance.   That is all history now and I'm making my move. The only thing is I'm stuck on how to word the message. I don't want to sound like a crazy and I feel really self conscious about sending a message out of the blue. *Sigh*[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post maggiepie Posted at 9:25 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Usually I hate first contact to be through messages but Facebook is my only way to talk to Thomas, this beautiful man from my 2d design class. I was interested in him from day one but a friend had a thing for him at the time so I kept my distance.   That is all history now and I'm making my move. The only thing is I'm stuck on how to word the message. I don't want to sound like a crazy and I feel really self conscious about sending a message out of the blue. *Sigh*

Replies Crazyteeth Posted at 9:35 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 I nice hi how are you isnt creepy. Gingie Posted at 9:31 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 NEVER say anything creepy like "so, you like jazz?" or "what you wearin?" Say something more like "Did you see the Twilight movie?" or some other casual topic like that. Who knows? Might spark something!   NetParicite Posted at 9:28 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 smile at him in class and try talking to him RememberTheName Posted at 9:27 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 You won't come off as a creepy if you keep it very friendly and casual (like I wouldn't say you like him in the first one). :) Ask him how he likes the class. txbball08 Posted at 9:26 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 If you're wanting to make a move, talk to him face-to-face. The Wolfhound Posted at 9:26 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 Quote: from jimbojones at 9:26 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 hmmm wow jimbojones Posted at 9:26 pm on Dec. 23, 2008 hmmm All 7 previous replies displayed.