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Topic is "sexting" cheating?
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doiochiverzi Posted at 12:17 pm on July 2, 2009
I caught my boyfriend having sex related conversations with... many different girls... he agrees that it was cheating... but I was wondering what you think... because currently we are trying to work things out... but I know that if he'd actually BEEN with these girls I would never forgive him... he also has a history of self esteem issues which he believes and i agree were the underlying reasons he was doing this in the first place.. he has agreed to get help for his issues... so right now i'm just going to see what happens

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morrisonsMYmuse Posted at 7:45 pm on July 2, 2009
yes. i would call it cheating.
because so many people place so little value on sex these days.. people are in and out of each others beds all the time. like it's going out of style or something... the cheating part is the mental or emotional connection you have with the other person.. and you have that wheather things get physical or not.
so, self esteem may be his issue.. but it's no excuse for having intimate conversations with other girls while he's in a relationship with you.
he should come to you when he's feeling down about himself...
just my opinion.
Live Just To Die Posted at 4:27 pm on July 2, 2009
I say yeah...

I mean it's a breach of trust for one thing, and it leads people on.

It's mean.

Ziggy Stardust Posted at 12:27 pm on July 2, 2009
ye it is
Leica Posted at 12:22 pm on July 2, 2009
Not cheating. Just a little irresponsible.
iswat Posted at 12:21 pm on July 2, 2009
I think Its a bad sign .
technole Posted at 12:21 pm on July 2, 2009
I don't personally think sexting is cheating just because its not physical. If you tell someone via text what you would do to them in the sack, doesn't always mean its going to happen.
mskennybaby Posted at 12:21 pm on July 2, 2009
sexting is cheating and its best you'd leave him
easley6 Posted at 12:20 pm on July 2, 2009
yes
soccerislife Posted at 12:19 pm on July 2, 2009
CHEATING=YES.
acolb Posted at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009
the same thing happened to me - i SAW his texts with other girls and i got SOO pissed. i didn;t know what to do either or how to feel about it. mostly i was just hurt. but he and i tried working it out and we're doing really well now.

i'm undecided whetehr it's cheating or not.

bawx II Posted at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009
If that's true, then a lot of girls on here cheated with their boyfriends wif mii.

NEWD CINTRAL OVER HER!

Kaijuu Posted at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009
It's cheating
RIMHfire Posted at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009
Like talking dirty with other girls?
Bagheera Posted at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009
Not in my opinion.
Soul Sista Posted at 12:18 pm on July 2, 2009
It's a form of cheating yea.
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