Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Am i normal? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 3:54 pm on July 10, 2009[quote]If you found out that your girlfriend/boyfriend didnt need you, would it bother you alot? Like, they wanted to be with you because they liked you, but they werent emotionally dependent on you... Would you feel unneeded?[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 3:54 pm on July 10, 2009 If you found out that your girlfriend/boyfriend didnt need you, would it bother you alot? Like, they wanted to be with you because they liked you, but they werent emotionally dependent on you... Would you feel unneeded?

Replies Stormblazer Posted at 4:00 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 4:54 pm on July 10, 2009 If you found out that your girlfriend/boyfriend didnt need you, would it bother you alot? Like, they wanted to be with you because they liked you, but they werent emotionally dependent on you... Would you feel unneeded? No. In fact I'd probably prefer it that way. While it's somewhat nice to be needed, I'd also feel weird and uncomfortable about it. I'd rather us be mutual partners in the relationship. Now, there's also emotional interdependence, but that's usually only something that develops over time, and rarely present at the start of a relationship unless you were either close friends already, or there was some special circumstance. Enigma of Eternity Posted at 3:58 pm on July 10, 2009 Oh hell no. I'd prefer it that they were not emotionally dependent on me. It sucks when they are. See Me Now Posted at 3:57 pm on July 10, 2009 Yeah, I think that's pretty normal. I wouldn't ever want complete dependence, but if he didn't have parts of him that truly needed me, and certain things he wont talk about with anyone else.. I would definitely feel unneeded, and I guess I need to feel needed. utheh Posted at 3:57 pm on July 10, 2009 yes rancid freakin rawk Posted at 3:56 pm on July 10, 2009 no. I'd be fine with that, to the point of almost prefering it. Imessedup2 Posted at 3:56 pm on July 10, 2009 I don't want a girlfried that is emotionally dependent on me, an dI don't want to be emotionally dependent on anyone. That's pretty silly to me. Kierais awesome Posted at 3:55 pm on July 10, 2009 no not really. trodgor1337 Posted at 3:55 pm on July 10, 2009 no i wouldn't Anthrax Posted at 3:55 pm on July 10, 2009 Fuck no, I dont care for somone elses pressure of dependancy.. Chasey Posted at 3:55 pm on July 10, 2009 yes =( RosabellaRai Posted at 3:55 pm on July 10, 2009 it would bother me.. yes. deuces13 Posted at 3:54 pm on July 10, 2009 Yes justaxdream Posted at 3:54 pm on July 10, 2009 yes im the same way All 13 previous replies displayed.