Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Guys, why do some guys do Jerk things to Ex's? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from [m]cruz122990[/m] at 8:27 pm on June 7, 2008[quote]erik said he is gay[/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Rabbit4U Posted at 8:23 pm on June 7, 2008 From a guy's perspective, do you happen to know why some men (not all, I'm not generalizing) feel the need to do kinda douchebag things to their exgirlfriends? Example: A guy broke up with my friend right before they went to away to college, but they happened to go to the same college. He openly flirted with girls who lived on her floor and it hurt her a lot. He told her he didn't love her anymore.  And it was very unlike his nature to be mean, he is a really nice guy. Is there a possiblity something like that is done out of fear? Jealousy? Maybe he wants to know that he is desireable...or to prove that he's "not" hurting? Would there be any obvious reason to hurt an ex? (IF the ex never hurt you first or did anything bad..no cheating, nothing) And why such an abrupt decision to breakup forever?

Replies californiaboy Posted at 12:14 pm on June 8, 2008 Yea all those you mentioned are possible reasons. cruz122990 Posted at 8:27 pm on June 7, 2008 erik said he is gay mattchew Posted at 8:24 pm on June 7, 2008 Prove hes "not" hurting probably... or maybe hes just an ass. carnage44 Posted at 8:24 pm on June 7, 2008 Jealousy, insecurity, immaturity. All 4 previous replies displayed.