Quoting Post Archived Topic: It will not be bumped to the top of the forum. Topic Am I Doing Right? Membername   Not a member? Sign Up Free (takes 20 seconds) Password   Forgotten your password? Post Font: Verdana Arial Black Georgia Comic Sans Impact   Size: Tiny Normal Big Huge   Color: Default Dark Red Red Orange Brown Green Olive Cyan Blue Dark Blue Indigo Black [ Check Spelling ] [ Post Preview ] [ LiveTags ] Quote: from Anonymous at 8:34 am on June 11, 2008[quote]My boyfriend and I've been dating for over 5 years. We live together. Well sense he started a new job I've noticed that he is changing. Everything is about him. It's like he forgets about me. He isn't as charming as he use to be. I know people change, but he is really becoming a selfish bastard. I don't work right now. It was agreed I finished school then went to work. Well, I'm done school now and it's time for me to work. I was going to start part time, but with him acting all strangely and different, I've decided to go full time and save money in case we end up breaking up. Does that make me a bad person? Wanting to save money in-case we end up breaking up? [/quote] FAQ Keyword Search: Post Options Favorites Manager Notify me of new replies to this topic by email Notify me of new replies to this topic by private message Original Post Anonymous Posted at 8:34 am on June 11, 2008 My boyfriend and I've been dating for over 5 years. We live together. Well sense he started a new job I've noticed that he is changing. Everything is about him. It's like he forgets about me. He isn't as charming as he use to be. I know people change, but he is really becoming a selfish bastard. I don't work right now. It was agreed I finished school then went to work. Well, I'm done school now and it's time for me to work. I was going to start part time, but with him acting all strangely and different, I've decided to go full time and save money in case we end up breaking up. Does that make me a bad person? Wanting to save money in-case we end up breaking up?

Replies morrisonsMYmuse Posted at 4:49 pm on June 11, 2008 that does not make you a bad person. that makes you a very smart person. good for you. TigressaLynnMae Posted at 1:47 pm on June 11, 2008 I think you're being rather realistic, hunny. Anonymous Posted at 12:02 pm on June 11, 2008 Quote: from child of rock n roll at 8:53 am on June 11, 2008 It makes you smart. Its just upsetting to be in a relationship and planning for its break up. Maybe try talking to him? I have, on many occasions. It goes through one ear and out the other. I love him so much, and i know he loves me too, but he is acting so differently. NikkiMikki Posted at 9:02 am on June 11, 2008 No, you're being realistic. child of rock n roll Posted at 8:53 am on June 11, 2008 It makes you smart. Its just upsetting to be in a relationship and planning for its break up. Maybe try talking to him? PreppyPeyton Posted at 8:52 am on June 11, 2008 Nope makes ya a smart person. tearsinheaven Posted at 8:48 am on June 11, 2008 no, it makes you a smart person. ajakana Posted at 8:45 am on June 11, 2008 You have to have money in case you break up that's only if you two are sharing a bank account that is but that's not a stupid idea its a smart one my mom always told me that and from what I'm seeing about your boyfriend I've had this type of guy before talk to him if he doesn't tell you nothing then he's stressed about something keep bothering him he'll thank you for that  some guys like you to chase them in that way, ask him if he needs some space but if he's being selfish he might go look for someone else I hope this is not what he does princesscrewe Posted at 8:44 am on June 11, 2008 no. that's a very smart decision a girl can make!btw, i hate  that kinda attitude when a someone starts a new job, then all the sudden, everything turns upside down,  he/she forgets about anyone or anything except their "JOB"....BS Skeleington Queen Posted at 8:42 am on June 11, 2008 no man im coming to you for advice Firefly00 Posted at 8:40 am on June 11, 2008 No, you are just thinking about your future resources, that's smart. Bagheera Posted at 8:37 am on June 11, 2008 It makes you a clever and well thought out person. sexybrown0304 Posted at 8:37 am on June 11, 2008 No that's actually smart Aqua Lily Posted at 8:36 am on June 11, 2008 no.. your just thinking ahead. but you really should talk to him Isaias Arenas Posted at 8:36 am on June 11, 2008 no its a good thing b/c ur thinking ahead of the situation and wha it could lead to....talk to him, hes probably stressed or somethin Most recent 15 of 17 previous replies displayed.